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Can you see through people and read their vibes well?

I've been told by friends and family since i was young that i am good at reading people. It started in 7th grade when my best friend brought another friend over to my house and i had heard about this friend but never met her. As soon as i saw her i got an uncomfortable feeling about her but i didn't tell anyone. Later on they stopped being friends because that girl would try to peer pressure my friend into doing delinquent type things like sneaking out at night and smoking.

It happened again in high school with another friend of mine who befriended two other girls whom i was not fond of but again i just kept it to myself. Fast forward a couple years and i met my friend from high school and she spoke of all the awful things those girls did to her. And i confessed to her that i never really liked them and she said she wished i had told her back then

The third time was the most prominent feeling and also the strangest. I went to the movie theater with some co-workers and one co-worker brought her childhood friend. As soon as i saw her everything just slowed down like time warped or something it was such a weird feeling. This girl was very normal nothing out of the ordinary but i just couldn't shake off this feeling of unsettling discomfort. I pulled two of my co-workers to the side and told them that girl is giving me bad vibes and they said they they had met her before and she was a nice girl. Fast forward a few months later my co-worker's boyfriend cheated on her with her childhood friend. It got really messy and they broke off a 10 year friendship.

That weird slowed down moment has not happened again but i am still spot on right about who people really are on the inside.

Tell your experiences :) Do you have a strong sense of intuition when it comes to reading people?

Personally, I'm a person who lets bygones be bygones. Till now even if someone has very deeply offended me, they have never inspired feeling of revenge within me.

But one of my ex-friend used to talk about how he was wronged and he would give me explicit details on how he'd like to take his revenge from the person who wronged him.

Although I never told him, this bothered me somewhere. I thought it propelled negativity and wished he would let go. But maybe enacting revenge could give him closure and put his mind at peace, as he was consumed by this intense desire to get even.

This was a bit scary for me because it made me wonder : If my friend is capable of such thoughts towards someone else, how can I trust that someday it won't be me he wants to seek revenge on? (If according to him an action of mine should result in revenge)

Therefore after sharing friendship with him, I've realized I'm less inclined to trust someone who desires revenge. Because people don't treat you differently from how they treat others.

So,

― Have you ever been bothered by your friend's desire for revenge?

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Side Note :
Although I've included poll options I'd like it if you guys shared your opinions too! :)