Search Results: not ready to date

Old flame and I went out for dinner, texted on and off and then he drunk texted me about hooking up. Is he looking for a fling or connection?

Long story - enough detail to get an actual answer because I am perplexed! I (F28) dated this guy (M31) for 6 months last year and I thought he was great. We weren't in a relationship, but neither him nor I was seeing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What advice would you give a woman struggling with online dating?

28F is about to turn 29; I am ready to find a guy and get married. I feel like I am ready and feel like it's the next chapter in my life. With the pandemic, I've been sticking to online dating, and since I'm not around a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Did anyone teach you to groom yourself for dating purposes?

Nobody taught me anything. I grew up extremely poor and we had absolutely nothing. But when I got my first job at 15 and ever since, I was always ready to spend money on clothes, facial washes, shoes, hair products,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when an old fling contacts half a year later?

(Background information: I am 28 and the guy is 29) I met a guy back in January of this year and we clicked instantly. Our chemistry was incredible and we did manage to go on a couple dates but unfortunately, he had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I get dating tips for lesbians?

I had gotten out of a 5 year relationship and took 1-1.5 years to find myself and heal. I have finally felt ready to get out there but I’m having a hard time. I either match with girls that just penpal me with no...

jdelwadia

Xper 3 Age: 34

Girl like me but says she is not ready to date just yet, can I do anything?

I'am talking to a girl and we got off really good. she said im the best guy she has ever spoke too and we click super well and have non stop conversations and even had nearly 7 hour phone call. It's a little long distance...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will she come back?

Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take things slow. But yet she said she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hi! I've[35M] been dating a girl[29F] for a short while 2month, and we only came to second date. No kissing tho, didn't want to push her on these buttons coz she told me want to take

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Family & Friends

Why is everyone against me living with my absent mother?

So my mother abandoned me when I was a child and she never calls to see how we’re doing. My family has been trying to get me to stop contacting her for years but they tell I’m so stubborn to listen and stop fighting with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My girlfriend may get sent back to her country and I am scared and not sure what to do?

I’ve been seeing her for 8-9 months and officially dating for 6. I love her and this is by far the happiest relationship I have ever been in. She is part of a program that has to move around a lot. I knew this going in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did my friend get led on? Why do guys do this?

My friend 25, was talking to this guy via Facebook dating he’s 23 and a single father to a 6 month old daughter. She also is a single mom herself to a 6 year old boy and 3 year old girl. They texted for 2 weeks on the...

Paulalove98

Xper 7 Age: 27

I know you do it when your ready, but around what age, would you expect most people to have gone on their first date by?

Not necessarily a full blown relationship, that is more random, because it can be hard to find people your "compatible" with, but just like a first date, or first couple of dates

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not necessarily a full blown relationship, that is more random, because it can be hard to find people your "compatible" with, but just like a first date, or first couple of dates

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My boyfriend cancelled a date on the beach with me?

Yesterday he went to meet his friends, he said he won't be late and i must be sure we are meeting for the Sunday beach day. He will be there for me. This morning i saw his last online time 4.40... at 8.30 he says he feels...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He wants to take a break cause he’s not ready for a relationship?

I decides to talk to him and he stated that he is not ready for a relationship and he asked for a break. Since he’s at a camp where there is no phone use for 2 weeks, we’re taking a break then. We decided that we’d still...

Overthinker234

Xper 1 Age: 21

I don’t know what to do about my relationship does anyone have advice on if he will change for me?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a couple years now I care deeply about him and he is my best friend and I know I love him, but for the longest time now he’s been putting himself before me, and has been selfish in many...

Anonymous

(18-24)

When a guy says it’s over, does he mean it?

For context, he said something happened this past weekend that brought him back to where he was at mentally that wasn’t good. He then said he wasn’t ready to open up and for both of us it just can’t happen now. This was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is someone waiting for Mr/Miss right a waste of time?

I’m not saying it a bad thing wanting to find Mr/Miss Right. Let’s say I have this friend and she has been frustrated with her dating life and complaining about how guy’s rejected her because she told them she is a virgin...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you felt completely ready to go on a first date with someone but then got cold feet when it got closer to the actual date? Why?

Jammaa

Explorer Age: 36

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