Her and I have been talking for the past few months on a daily basis. We spend the whole day talking on facetime or texting. Recently, we started sleeping together on facetime at the end of the day to make sure each other slept. When we wake up we pick up where we were before. She doesn’t want to get into a relationship right now because her ex (first love that she dated for 3 months) traumatized her and made her close off. Now she thinks school might get in the way and doesn’t want to get into anything. At the same time, she’s confused whether she likes me or not because she blushes and gets flustered when I flirt and compliment her, but she also sees me as a friend because we were therapist buddies before I started being flirty. She told me that if she never dated her ex, I might’ve been her first boyfriend. But now she’s more wary and says she isn’t ready to get back into a relationship. We’re both extremely open to one another and don’t really talk to anyone else. We both talk to each other about our issues and know each other pretty well. We both help nurse each other when we’re sick, help each other fall asleep at night, and make sure we both eat and stay healthy. She says she sees me as a really nice, thoughtful, and mature guy who takes care of her and goes out of his way to make sure that she’s ok. She continues by saying that even when we were going through arguments and disagreements, I sat through it for her and put things down for her. Turns out she really liked it and got flustered by it. So now she’s confused whether she likes me or not because she keeps blushing and getting embarrassed when I do these things. Do you think she likes me and how can I help her be more open to dating?
It’s hard to say whether she likes you or not, but from what you describe the whole situation, it’s clear that she doesn’t have a strong desire and urge to be with you romantically now. She could like you but she could just be emotionally attached to you without romantic feelings because you two have spent a lot of time together and may have got used to each other’s presence.
Maybe tell her you like her if she rejects you, that means she doesn’t wanna be with you, if she’s not sure if she likes you or not, it means her romantic feelings aren’t so strong and clear. If you like her, you can stay with her as a friend and let time tell you two can develop in to something more.
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Dang your first few sentences were adorably cute and reminded me of some stuff. But as soon as you mentioned the excuses she's using like trauma and school, yea no she's just using you for comfort and attention. Get out while you still can
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I think you’re being friendzoned … the more you remain at her disposal and available … she will take you for granted.
Put some space and let her come to you but both need clear terms of what you want from all of this.
You might be also just after the rush of getting her … so proceed with caution with her feelings please.Omg she likes you! But she’s also not ready for a relationship. You need to be patient and respect her wishes.
Friendzone, I'm sorry. Maybe talking every day and staying in touch so much means you guys skipped over a romantic relationship and she must just feel comfortable with your presence and wants to keep it platonic.
Liking you doesn’t mean she wants to date you.
Yes, if she doesn’t like u she won’t give u her time
Probably not, but you will never know while you are texting.
yeah she definitely likes yoy
Welcome to the friend zone. Population. You.
Uh yh she does
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