Things guys want girls to know: GUYS: Are These True? which are/aren't?

Question

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”

5. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

6.Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does

7. Guys are good flatterers when flirting, but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

8. Guys love when girls lay their heads on the guys neck when they're sitting next to each other.

9. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

10. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

11. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

12. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

13. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

14. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

15. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

16. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

17. When a girl acts spazzy and giggly, guys think its embarrassing...not cute.

18. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

19. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

20. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

21. A guy has more problems than you can see

22. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

23. It’s good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too long.

24. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused

25. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much

26. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.

27. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

28. Guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes along

WeaponZero · Accepted Answer

Can't speak for other guys, only myself, so here goes...

1. False. I've never had a heartbreak I didn't recover from and totally move on from in under a month.

2. Honestly girls aren't what's usually on my mind anyway so I'd have to answer this as N/A. I think more about things involving my passions/hobbies, or ideas for the stories I write.

3. I wouldn't say go crazy, no. Smiling looks attractive, sure.

4. No. I interpret no as no. When I hear the word "no" from a girl, I make it a point to never see her again.

5. Only if he's insecure and possessive. I'm comfortable with my girlfriend having male friends because I understand women can be very catty and as a result many girls get along better with guys than girls, thus making for better friendships.

6. Not really... As long as her weight falls in the realm of healthy I'm good. Don't care much about height either.

7. I have a stuttering problem regardless, so another N/A here.

8. My neck is an "off-limits" area. I don't feel comfortable with anything or anyone except my own hands touching my neck.

9. False. If I'm presenting you with problems, it's because I want solutions. Otherwise I'd keep it to myself.

10. No, I'm like that with all my friends.

11. False. And no, I never use the word "cute" to describe anything other than babies or small furry animals. Calling an adult human being "cute" to me sounds like an insult.

12. True.

13. Do I worry about it? No. I tend to not get anywhere near it though lol.

14. Incorrect. I don't read into body language or signs/hints, and whenever a girl says something to me I ALWAYS take it at face value. I do not have the time or patience for figuring people out.

15. For me I never forget it, even years down the road, after the girl is long gone from my life.

16. I've never used that phrase in that context and never would. Different people speak differently.

17. In moderation, it's cool. Often, it's annoying as all hell.

18. I always talk seriously. It's just my nature.

19. True.

20. False. Could just be staring in that direction. And if I am thinking about something, it usually doesn't have anything to do with romance or sex.

21. Doesn't everyone?

22. Intimidated isn't the word. Turned off is. Makes her come off as a drama queen bitch and I place too high a value on my mental health to let a girl bring unneeded stress into my life.

23. Incorrect. Tests are seen as mind games and make girls come off as drama queens. When I approach a girl, I don't like to have to work for it and I don't have the patience for challenges. If she makes the process more difficult than it has to be, I'm out of there because I see that as being the sign of an immature little girl, not a mature woman.

24. I suppose so. Makes sense.

25. Personally, not a fan of any at all. But a little couldn't hurt I suppose.

26. No, I don't.

dreamtime · Accepted Answer

4)sometimes for the girl we really like but not just for everyone

5)No, I'm not the jealous type and I am fine with her having male friends.

6)Whats the word?

14)Only if we care enough about the girl ;)

15)Not really, I do stupid stuff all the time as I like the adrenaline rush =)

17)Giggly can be cute, sometimes.

19)Depends on the way she says it, some girls really don't realize it and it comes across as cute then =)

20)Not too sure about this one myself, I'll pay attention to it and let you know

23)Its mystery & curiousity but too much of it just gives us a headache which is hardly any good

24)No, we are curious but I like my nuts

27)I guess I want to sleep with my friends without realising it then? o_O

I'll agree completely with all the others, was a fun read

IHateMeganFox · Accepted Answer

From my personnel experience I would say 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, 17, 21, 23, 24, 27, and 28 are wrong.

5- Guys don't really care? At least not the ones I hang out with. But unless their the jealous type or have problems then no, they don't care.

7- I've had lots of guys like me... Most don't stammer.

9- No, that's just not right. Guy's like girls, just get advice from whoever they think will give good advice.

11- It depends on the guy, I've had guy's who barely know me call me beautiful or gorgeous. I've also had guys that care about me a lot tell me I'm gorgeous or beautiful. Or both. One guy who loved me said I was hot, cute, beautiful, gorgeous, pretty, stunning everything. So it all depends on the guy.

13- If they really care about you, they don't care. Otherwise their insecure.

17- I act like that a lot, it's just my personality. Most guys don't seem to mind.

21- Everyone has problems. Even dead hamsters have problems.

23- Don't test anyone. It will lead you nowhere. Trust me.

24- Like #9 they will seek advice from both sexes.

27- The guy could just be flirting or being playful. I've had guys hit my butt but... Oh wait... nvm lol.

28- I don't really think that's true. Unless he is a really insecure or shy person.

mslique · Accepted Answer

16. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

This guy that is 23 told me this. I definately want to know if this one is true or if that young tenderoni was just trying to spit some game.

IAmWedge · Answer

17. When a girl acts spazzy and giggly, guys think its embarrassing...not cute.

DEPENDS ON WHETHER SHE SEEMS OTHERWISE COOL AND I LIKE HER. IF SHE'S JUST BEING CHILDISH THEN YES...IT'S NOT A GREAT IMPRESSION.

18. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

THIS SHOULDN'T BE TRUE, BUT IT OFTEN IS.

19. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

THIS USED TO HAPPEN TO ME A LOT, AND IT IS A BIT ANNOYING. IT KIND OF FEELS LIKE YOUR COMPLEMENT ISN'T VALUED.

20. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

PROBABLY

21. A guy has more problems than you can see

YES. BUT SO DO GIRLS.

22. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

IF A GIRL IS RUDE, THEN THE SAME AS IF I'M TALKING TO A BLOKE WHO IS RUDE, I HAVE NO INTEREST IN KNOWING THEM.

23. It’s good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too long.

I'M NOT AT ALL A FAN OF 'GAMES'. I THINK ITS A BIT IMMATURE.

24. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy’s confused, then we’re all confused

I SEEK ADVICE FROM WHOEVER I THINK CAN GIVE GOOD ADVICE. SOMETIMES IT'S NICE TO GET A GIRLS 'THOUGHT PROCESS' THOUGH.

25. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much

100% TRUE

26. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.

I'VE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT THIS BEFORE. MAYBE?

27. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

COMPLETELY DEPENDS ON THE CONTEXT. IT'S NOT SOMETHING I'D DO TO ANYONE UNLESS I WAS DATING THEM, AND EVEN THEN I WOULDN'T DO IT IN PUBLIC.

28. Guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes along

YES...BUT I ALSO DO THAT WITH JOB INTERVIEWS.

IAmWedge · Answer

I can't speak for all men but from my point of view:

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

100% TRUE

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

TRUE

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

TRUE (AND THEIR LAUGH IF IT'S CUTE)

4. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”

DEPENDS ON THE CONTEXT, AND HOW SHE SAYS NO. IF SHE SOUNDS UNSURE THEN WHY NOT? IF SHES EXTREMELY RUDE THEN I WONT BOTHER WASTING MY TIME ON HER.

5. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

I DONT LIKE TO ADMIT IT, BUT YES ITS TRUE. BUT SOME GUYS MIGHT PREFER HAVING THE COMPETITION (IF THEY'RE SURE THEY CAN WIN IT)

6.Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does

I DONT LIKE A GIRL TO BE TALLER THAN ME. I DON'T CARE ABOUT WEIGHT AS LONG AS SHE'S NOT SKELETAL OR OBESE.

7. Guys are good flatterers when flirting, but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

DEPENDS ON THE GUY AND THE GIRL, BUT YOU'RE A BIT MORE DISTRACTED BY WANTING TO GET IT A GOOD RESULT.

8. Guys love when girls lay their heads on the guys neck when theyre sitting next to each other.

I LIKE A GIRL JUST LAYING UP AGAINST ME WHEREVER, DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THE NECK.

9. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

I USUALLY PREFER ADVICE AND FROM LOTS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE / VIEWPOINTS.

10. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

YEP, IT'S JUST FLIRTING

11. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

COMPLETELY DEPENDS ON THE GUY AND THEIR GENERAL VOCABULARY. IF A GUY CARES ABOUT A GIRL THOUGH, HE'S LESS LIKELY TO USE DEROGATORY WORDS.

12. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

COMPLETELY TRUE FOR ME. I DON'T CARE IF I'M TALKING TO THE HOTTEST GIRL IN THE WORLD, IF SHE'S AN ABSOLUTE B*TCH THEN I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER.

13. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

INSECURE ONES DO, YEAH.

14. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

INSECURE ONES DO, YEAH.

15. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

INSECURE ONES DO, YEAH.

16. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

EITHER MEANS HE LIKES HER A LOT, OR SHE'S A PAIN IN THE ASS.

Either means he likes her a lot, or she's a pain in the a

melencoly · Answer

1- T

2- F when we are in love there will be no flirting with other girls. We only flirt with other girls when we aren't in love.

3- some guys, some girls, some smiles... not all and not every time

4- depends on the girl, the guy, the topic, and the relationship

5- T all guys know there is no such thing as a plutonic relationship with a girl and a guy. There are simply 2 kinds of girls. Those that we could potentially (even if the chance is really small) screw around with... these are the girls we talk to. And those that we will never sleep with... these are the girls we ignore (why would anybody hang with somebody that is too good for us?). Honestly all guys know any guy that is 'your friend' is actually becoming close to you in the hopes that this closeness will bring you into each others arms and bed. Don't believe me? Get married or have children and see how your 'male friend' seem to drift away and disappear.

6- F both height and weight make a difference

7- F we do get nervous when talking to a girl we like but not because of any other reason than we don't want her to think we are too smooth and sleep around.

8- both depends on the girl and situation

9- F that statement is for girls who think with their mouths and often use conversation for taking things out. If a guy tells you his problems he needs help... we do not think with our mouths we use them for resolution.

10- T

11- F depends on the guy... I think I've used all those words. Generally hot means we would sleep with.

12- F ass and boobs make a difference. Not all asses and boobs are equal. I wouldn't date somebody over a b cup preferably 32b or 34b... I have friends that wouldn't date then if they were smaller than that. They are total preference... for every ass there is a guy, and for every set of breasts there is a guy. I don;t like ghetto booty but have friends that love the junk in the trunk.

13- F guys don't usually give a sh*t if there single friends who aren't getting laid tonight think they are whipped. And to all the other whipped guys it's high fives for the benefits of being whipped. Not too whipped though that will drive him away.

14- F I think girls do this. It can happen to guys but I don't think we'll make a rule of it.

15- T

16- T

17- both depends on the sitch

18- depends on the guy but it's usually good to listen to anybody that is serious ... isn't that why we recognize serious as a facial expression? So we know when we should be attentive cause something might be up?

19- T

20- T and it's likely a dirty though don't get mad get dirty.

21- T

22- T

23- F nobody likes tests instead trust him until he proves you wrong and then never trust him again after that.

24- F

25- Everything except for sex that is. Why moderate that?

26- F I don't cause I don't feel I am aloud to be part of that conversation.

27- F ass slapping does not mean that. A soft grab or a little pinch... probably

28- both

johnny_hustle · Answer

1. Yes

2. Eh depends.

3. If it's my girl. words can't even describe how it makes me feel.

4. It's hard to tell if she means NO! or if she means, I'm play hard to get so chase me.

5.As in, we want to be the only guy you think about in a boyfriend way, or even in a sexual way. But we do realize you have celebrity crushes, those are okay, but guys you actually have a shot at meeting or already have met. Hell no... but if it's a guy who happens to be just a friend. that's okay.

6. Weight no, body fat percentage yes. Chubby girls can be hot as hell. (depending on what you consider chubby) but a girl who is just huge. no I take care of my body I want a girl who at least tries to take care of hers as well.

7. If I don't know you. Then I will stumble on my words regardless. First impressions mean a lot to girls so. But if I've known you for a while, I have no problem whatsoever.

8. yeah

9. If I'm just complaining then yeah. but if it's an actual problem, then I would want some feedback

10. Depends. more often then not, yes, but it could be we're just good friends.

11. yeah

12. Most definitely. Ass and t*ts are just what gets us to the point where we approach you.

13.Nope, that's elementary.

14. If I like the girl. Yes, I will be thinking for hours sometimes days. And end up becoming paranoid, and ask girls questions here on GAG. ha ha :)

15. Yeah, pretty much

16. Uhh.. yeah!

17. True to a point. If it's once in a while nah but if it happens constantly. then yes. it can get annoying.

18. True

19. Yeah

20. No I could be spacing out and just happen to be looking at you while doing it.

21. Who doesn't have problems?

22.Intimidated? Eh not really, it would just p*ss me off and never want to talk to you again.

23. F***no, test me. I will just up and leave before you even get the first question answered. That's a childs game.

24. No, we seek from both

25. both can be nice if done correctly and very little of both. but neither is fine as well as long as you showered and put on deodorant

26. Nope. I'm an ass guy. So I could care less

27. Not always. Could be a friend. I only slap a girls ass if we are friends and I'm messing around, and it is a slap not a grab. big difference. but if its a girl I like and I slap, then no not sexual, if I grab then yes sexual

28. I try to avoid talking on the phone, but that is true. Luckily with texting I have time to think about what I say and can always go back and erase. :)

MandMandM · Answer

To respond to the first premise, I'm not bothered if you know these things about me or not. Since you asked, I'm killing time, it may help or interest you, and I learn by thinking about these things...

1.Depends who ended it and why.

2.No.

3. It can be nice, but go crazy is way too strong

4. Depends on the relationship and situation.

5. Absolutely not. This would be completely tedious.

6. Yes.

7. Both vary. If she and the situation are important, guys can over think things!

8. Usually.

9. No. We talk with people to learn and to get a new perspective. We may not follow the advice of course!

10. Yes - wouldn't invest the time or effort with someone who wasn't important

11. Varies with age and culture. I don't love anywhere near everyone I think is beautiful.

12. Totally, except for initial animal attraction.

13. Nope. If you're self assured compassionate is always good. I don't give a rat's a$$ if someone else thinks I'm whipped. I know I'm not and never could be.

14. Sometimes. She has to be very special for this to apply though.

15. As 14.

16. Yes.

17. If it is giggly over nothing obvious yes, but a sense of humour is crucial.

18. Depends on the guy.

19. No on many levels. A bit of modesty is fine in response. I'm perfectly happy for anyone to disagree with me. It is in exploring the differences that I learn. I am completely disinterested in people who are intollerant of any other view than their own, other than to try to provoke consideration of different perspectives to the extent of their mental capacity and maturity. I wouldn't have a long term relationship with anyone who expected or demanded total mental conformity.

20. Where he's looking and what he's thinking may not be connected!

21. Obviously.

22. "would be unimpressed" and "may reject you absolutely" would be more appropriate phrases than intimitated and give up easily.

23. Of course. And of course entirely at your own risk. Life is way too short to hang around forever for a female player.

24. Yes, but not for the reason you give. Guys are much more afraid of appearing vulnerable to other guys than they are to women. If this was an all male forum guys wouldn't disclose half as much. Thanks for giving us the space! Of course there are some completely insensitive women out there with the emotional range of a hockey puck, but in general this is not the case. And no, not all guys think the same thank goodness.

25. Yes

26. I'm completely indifferent about this.

27. No, he could just like prison food.

28. Sometimes.

AbsolutelyClueless6 · Answer

1. It's true that we're emotional, no one is just skin deep, but that doesn't mean we're always clingy. :P

2. This one is pretty accurate.

3. Not a guaranteed thing, but smiles express joy, and as social creatures, joy spreads from person to person. So naturally, positive feelings will be attached to the person doing the smiling. 🙃

4. Absolutely not. No means no. Most of us can accept that.

5. That's called a "controlling jerk", so no. Talk to who you want and if your guy gets mad, does he really deserve to be your guy?

6. Neither matter. And they shouldn't, either.

7. With a lot of guys this is true. If he stammers when talking to you, probably a good sign. But if he doesn't, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

8. Physical contact conveys a sense of closeness and trust. So... Yeah?

9. That's true. Sometimes it's helpful, but it's never needed.

10. Teasing doesn't mean liking. It just means you're close. You can be close without being romantically interested.

11. This one's definitely true, but if a guy says you're hot, cute, or pretty, that certainly means something too!

12. It's what's inside that counts, cheesy as it is. 🙃

14. ABSOLUTELY true. Completely. 100%.

15. Yep, completely accurate.

16. These ones are all correct. 😂 Congrats to whoever wrote them.

17. Nah, it can be cute. Depends on a lot. It can also definitely be embarrassing though. 😂

18. If we're talking serious, it means we're trusting you. Lots of guys grow up being taught that they should be able to handle everything on their own, so if they have the courage to talk to you about something, don't ignore it.

19. The last thing we want us to have to reassure someone we like that they're pretty. I mean, we can tell. However... Accepting a compliment like that takes skill. 😂

20. No, that's silly. Longer than a second doesn't mean "crush". It does mean that our brain is trying to remember a face, or just expressing interest, but not necessarily romantically.

21. That's true of anyone.

22. True. Girls are scccaaarrryyyy... 😂

24. This one if SO accurate. Y'all are better at people than us.

25. Not too much? Totally agree. But you don't need to put on any.

26. What? No! That's WEIRD 😂

27. Noooo, it means they're a disrespectful jerk. 😂

28. Definitely true.

wolfgang · Answer

1)true

2 true

3 maybe /maynot be

4 depends on guys personality

5 depends

6 somewhat ----i hate extreme

7 nope

while filrting my brain configation is

intel atom processor

256 mb RAM

when I am with the girl I like my congif is

intel i7 second generation core

16 gb RAM

plus a 3 GB graphic card

8) I love it

9)depends on personality , I like to take advice from all source assimilate it , use the best ones for my own good( purely depends on ones own ego)

10)need not be

11)carefull - they may be fake comments to impress you .

12)i love women who carry themself well

13)true

14) true

15)nope I don't bother what other think of me , all of us make mistakes

16) true

17) sometimes

18)yup

19)nope he ll give you more compliment to make you feel better

20)nope , I sometime look at somone blamkly and think about my patients their treatment or about movies or plans for the day and stuff

21)true

22)yes very true

23) yup

24) I share it my friends ...irrespective of sex

25)yes - should be presentable

26)not "GIRLS" -------if a GIRL talks about her boobs yes

27)maybe sexually , or he like you expression" or he is in a mischief mood

28)depends

peace

takecare

21)

khayyam · Answer

1. I can't speak for everyone, but I'm more emotional than I let on.

2. True for me.

3. Maybe not crazy. But receiving a smile from a girl I like makes my week (literally).

4. It depends. If the girl just flat out ignores me, it hurts a lot more.

5. Yes, but not in a possessive way.

6. In a sense, yes. Personally, I like healthy girls.

7. SO TRUE (for me)! My courage goes out the window when I'm around the girl I like.

8. Yea.

9. Situational. Depends on the problem.

10. It doesn't "prove" anything in my opinion.

11. I haven't thought about it but it seems true for me. I haven't called a girl "beautiful" in the past year.

12. This is true for me. May not be true for other guys.

13. The truth is I don't wanna look whipped in front of my friends. If my friends weren't around, I'd do a whole lot for a girl including things that make me look whipped.

14. Definitely true for me. It's especially true if I don't get to see the girl often.

15. Unless she was amused by it and laughed.

16. Anyone can say anything.

17. Giggly is okay. Spazzy can be charming in some contexts.

18. This should apply to anyone.

19. Maybe.

20. For sure. Or he could know that you know that looking for more than a second means something, so he looks for more than a second.

21. Everyone has more problems than we can see.

22. Seriously true.

23. Same goes for guys testing girls.

24. True. I take a girl's advice about girls very seriously.

25. Agreed.

26. I'm not a boobs guy so I don't really care.

27. Meh

28. Pretty much.

MrLobsterMan · Answer

These aren't really true for me:

-1 - I'm a lot more emotional than most people (examples: yesterday I wept at the thought of someone hitting a 1-year-old infant on the hand; I cry more often than my girlfriend) , but I get over things far, far quicker than most people. I had an ex cheat on me when I was madly in love with her. We broke up immediately, and it took only 2 weeks to get to a place where I could feel good about my life and talk to her without bitterness, even though I know she deserves it.

-2 - Flirtations sometimes happen, but I don't flirt around all day when I really care about a girl.

-6 - Neither height nor weight matter much- as long as a girl takes care of herself reasonably. Weight will only turn me away once a girl stops having defined curves. Larger curves are still good curves. Girls are too hyper-conscious of their weight as it is. Spreading this is horrible.

-18 - I talk seriously pretty often

-19 - I'll just insist and tell you you're wrong. Because you are. If you make this regular, though, I'll see it as a self-esteem issue, at which point your personality is less attractive.

-20

- 25 - I prefer no makeup on most girls I've dated, and deodorants to perfumes...any perfume can be irritating, and nobody I've dated needed makeup, but if anything use in moderation

-26

These aren't CLOSE to true for me:

-4

-5 - Talk to other guys, just not sexually. If you didn't have male friends, I'd worry.

-10 - it proves that I felt comfortable enough to tease you. Nothing more or less.

-11

-13

-17 - If I like you, it can be really cute as long as it's not wholly unnatural. If we have no relationship, it's embarrassing...for you. But I have sympathy.

In other words, I disagree wholly or mostly with 50% of the list.

Koncieved · Answer

This is on a personal basis, I'm not generalizing my sex.

1) False-I'm not very emotional

2)Sometimes true

3)False-Not crazy, but I am pleased by a girl's smile.

4)False-I hear no

5)False-I don't mind other guys who are friends with her

6)True

7)Sometimes I'll stammer whenever.

8)I like it not love it

9)I don't tell people my problems

10)Sometimes not always

11)False

12)True

13)False

14)I don't need to think that a lot or for very long to figure out a girl.

15)I think about stupid things I do regardless if they're around girls during the happening

16)True

17)Sometimes I think it's cute, sometimes I won't think anything of it.

18)I always speak seriously

19)True

20)True-for the most part

21)True-I believe most people have more problems then you can see

22)False-I don't get intimidated, the fact that a girl is a snob is just a significant turn off

23)True

24)False-I rarely seek advice

25)True

26)False

27)?-When would you ever hit a girl on the butt randomly unless you were in a relationship.

28)True-Everyone plans out what they're going to say ahead of time, unless they're just naturally excellent speakers.

CubanRaftRider · Answer

1. Very true

2. True

3. True only if the girl that's smiling is the girl that the guy likes

4. I don't but some guys do

5. True with me but I'm never going to say that to the girl

6. Depends on how tall/short and small/big

7. I usually stammer when talking to girls I don't know - if I know you and we are friends I can talk to you like your ''one of the guys'' and you can't get me to shut up

8. true :)

9. Depends on the problem - usually though I want feedback/suggestions

10. True

11. True

12. True

13. I don't really care if someone calls me whipped if I'm with the girl I like

14. Depends on if the guy likes the girl

15. I'll still think about it when I'm spending time with the girl

16. Sometimes - I've heard guys say that and they really were but I've heard some say that then they were chasing another girl a week later

17. Depends on how ''out there'' the spazzy and giggly is - too much and it kinda gets annoying

18. Depends on the guy and/or topic.

19. Depends - I like to say it and watch her face turn red ha ha :)

20. True

21. Very true

22. VERY TRUE! I always look at is as she is a bitch and not interested in me

23. Depends on what the ''test'' is. If it is crazy then the guy may lose interest

24. Depends - I usually ask a few female friends for the females point of view then I ask a few males for the guys point of view and to see if they have been in a similar situation

25. True

26. True

27. I've never done that to a girl. I would view that as disrespectful if you were just starting to date and not on the sex level yet. I've never been to the sex level in a relationship to even say if I would feel comfortable doing it then.

28. True

Anonymous · Answer

1. This is true

2. Yep

3. Sometimes true

4. Depends on the country

5. If he is young or the jealous type this is true.

6. I like short, petite women. I think it varies. Some guys like girls with big asses because they can ride a huge **** better

7. Depends, smooth talking guys are usually not nervous at all around any women

8. Yeah if you are official

9. If a guy tells you about his problems you're either married or in the friend zone

10. This is completely not true

11. This is true of young American men

12. When a girl looks like you I wonder how its going to be when I'm deep inside her and holding her boobs from behind, so yes it matters

13. Yes

14. Depends on serious it is

15. Yes

16. Depends, if he is a player he is lying

17. Sometimes

18. Some people are always serious

19. No

20. Depends

21. Definitely

22. Losers do. If a guy is good he'll try to get girls that look like you because he'll want to f*** you silly

23. Yes

24. Both

25. Mostly true

26. Usually a turn on

27. Unless you are close friends this is true. I do it when I want to create sexual tension with a woman

Anonymous · Answer

1-5. true

6. False. There are many guys out there will put up with a ton of crap to nail a hot chick.

7-10 True.

11. True, but it doesn't mean that he loves/likes you. It just means he means it.

12-13 true

14. You must be new to this site.

15. False. Depends on the personality of the guy. Doesn't bother me for very long, if at all.

16-18. True.

19. True, but for the wrong reason. It makes me think you have no self confidence.

20. Possibly true...sometimes there ain't a whole lot going on up there.

21. True.

22. False. Snob isn't intimidating...no one wants to be with a bitch.

23-26. True.

27. False. how do you explain sports?

28. True

giantmothlbr · Answer

PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE, LADIES, FOR YOUR OWN SAKES STOP TESTING US BEFORE EVEN GETTING TO KNOW US.  AND FOR THAT MATTER, JUST STOP TESTING US PERIOD.  BY TESTING US, YOU ARE LOOKING FOR OUR FAULTS...WELL, GUESS WHAT?  WE HAVE THEM.  WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT KNIGHTS IN SHINING ARMOR AND AS SUCH WE ARE NOT PERFECT...THERE IS NO SUCH THING!  WE ABSOLUTELY HATE IT.  I WOULD RATHER GET AN INVASIVE TEST FROM MY DOCTOR THAN BE TESTED BY A WOMAN.  IT MEANS THAT YOU THINK WE ARE STUPID, OR THAT WE ARE SOMEHOW NOT WHAT YOU THOUGHT WE WERE.  WELL STOP PRETENDING THAT THE ONLY WAY TO KNOW US IS TO DEVISE SOME SCHEME TO SEE IF WE'LL BEHAVE THE WAY YOU WANT US TO.  BECAUSE WE PROBABLY WON'T, AND IF WE DO IT'S MOST LIKELY BECAUSE WE SAW THE TEST COMING AND ARE ON TO YOU.  FOCUS ON WHAT WE DO RIGHT ON OUR OWN INSTEAD OF WHAT WE MIGHT DO WRONG IF THIS OR THAT WERE TO HAPPEN, AND I PROMISE YOU'LL BOTH BE HAPPIER.

ladsin · Answer

1.) sometimes typically no though

2.) no

3.)no

4.)no

5.) yes but we realize you got other friends

6.) no

7.) sometimes

8.) yes

9.) naw, I wanna know what you think

10.) somewhat but you might just be a friend

11.) no, I just use beautiful when I'm around her parents because they like to hear it

12.) no

13.) no

14.) no

15.) yea

16.) yea

17.) no

18.) yea

19.) yea

20.) its hard to not be thinking anything..

21.)yes

22,) no it just pisses me off

23.) .. test me? hell no that pisses me off

24.) I don't know depends althhough I rarely ask girls for advice

25.) I prefer no makeup but most girls like it so its fine whenever she wants

26.) yup

27.) yeah..

28.) ... I don't talk on phone so idk

alltheabove1212 · Answer

1. Absolutely. Have gone through this a lot

2. Think about the girl before bed, yes

3. Not always

4. We don’t always know the difference between not interested and hard to get

5. yep

6.to a degree. There has to be balance

7. Yeah

8. Yep : )

9. Not always true

10. I do that all the time

11. I try to reserve beautiful for special girls

12. There needs to be a balance

13. Yes. Cus if we’re whipped it’s nottt good

14. I do that sometimes

15. No I don’t worry about it that much

16. true

17. I think it’s cute

18. I talk seriously a lot, listen up!

19. It gets annoying because I’m trying to compliment

20. You’re good looking, or he’s spaced out

21. No

22. Yes

23. Tests are dumb

24. No

25. Yep

26. eh it’s okay

27. yep

28. yep

freepheonix · Answer

1. yes

2 sometimes

3 yes

4 sometimes

5 yes if your talking about dating another guy but just talking to no

6 no

7 sometimes

8 yes

9 yes he will normally ask for the advice

10 yes

11 yes

12 more the whole package ( eyes, smile, ass, boobs, personality) ass and boobs are short term eye catchers personality is a long time keeper

13 nope

14 yes

15 no

16 yes

17 depends

18 not really all the time

19 not that they don't want you to disgree with them they just get tired of your defeating attitude he told you because he believes it

20 normally

21 yep

22 its just not good you're not that good

23 playing games is for kids

24 a lot of the time

25 yes, but natural with confidence is sexy as hell

26 not really, if your going to talk about them but not show them then you are just teasing them

27 most of the time

28 most of the time

blah52 · Answer

1. nope

2. nope

3. Sometimes

4. Sometimes

5. Depends on what your talking about.

6. Yes, to a point. she can't be too short.

7. Depends on the guy

8. Ehh, its ok.

9. Wrong, we wouldn't talk about it if we could figure it out ourselves.

10. Sometimes

11. Maybe, sometimes true sometimes not.

12. Can't f*** a personality.

13. nope

14. nope

15. I think that goes for most people, no one likes looking stupid.

16. Depends on the guys saying it.

17. If its not often its cute.

18. Usually

19. nope

20. Usually

21. Probably not

22. No, we just do like bitches

23. That can push us away, no one likes to be played with

24. Nope

25. Correct, finally

26. From time to time it ok

27. Usually, other times its just for fun

28. Only if he chokes all the time.

snackeyg · Answer

4. Only certain guys will do that. Some are too scared and will just hope you notice them.

7. Wouldn't happen every time or at all for some guys. Also it wouldn't always be negative thoughts that he thought you were gonna say.

11. I use cute a lot. I love cute so for me and I'm sure other guys, that can apply go girls they truly like and they might not say beautiful or gorgeous.

17. Depends on how extreme or how exactly they're acting. For the most part yeah not cute.

19. Isn't true at all. It will make a guy try harder to get you to believe you're beautiful.

Besides the above I agree with the rest.

AndyWes · Answer

Most are true. But if we tell you about a problem, we want a comfort *and* advice on it. And 'no' only means "try again tomorrow" if we adore the girl. Like, 'I'd take a bullet for her' type of adore. And no, looking at you for more than a second doesn't mean we're thinking something, it can take us a few seconds to decide if you're hot or not, or we could be bored.

And #1 is the most true on the list.

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