Search Results: wait or move on

Do you think girls should be more straightforward?

I was just thinking about something and this thought crossed my mind, we are taught that we should be feminine, wait for a guy to make a move and so on… So it puts you in a position that the guy chooses you instead of you...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Please help me understand? Is it me or his depression?

My boyfriend of 9 years, and father of 2 children has recently received news his dad (who he is very close to) has bowel cancer. My boyfriend is also in thousands of pounds worth of debt which he pays back every month...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girlfriend said she needed space, it's been a month, should I tell her to move on?

I was in a relationship with a girl I met online for about two months. I think she has borderline personality disorder (BPD) - like symptoms. She's very loving and caring one day and unempathetic and detached another....

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Is he right? Am I obsessed?

I, 16 female, my boyfriend 17 male, have been together for 3 years total, and recently he moved to a different country and when he was there for the first few days he tried his best to answer me and involve me as much a...

BobaboMouse

Xper 3 Age: 22

How many months to wait for a man to start increasing his efforts to move the relationship forward?

He’s consistently communicating with me every day and being very up front about his interest. In two months, we had one date which was all day and amazing. He’s holding back on me because we live in different cities. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get my boyfriend to clean up after himself?

So for small context, I live with my dad (housing/apartments are so expensive 😅) and recently within the last year my boyfriend moved in. I'm not the cleanliest person but I make sure to try not to leave things a mess....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I wait to break up with my boyfriend until after he moves out of my apartment? Or now?

I’ve been dating this guy since last summer. When I met him I was really broken up about a split from another guy who had to move away. So I started seeing this new guy steadily I think as a means to try and move on.. in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he not as serious with me or making the same commitment?

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year. He’s everything I want everything I’ve ever dreamed of. But, he is taking his time. Before me he dated a girl fell madly in love, and moved in with her after three months....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I wait for this guy on move on?

I started talking to a guy on a dating app last Sunday, and we both had the same vibes. By Sunday night, we had agreed that we wanted to meet. We planned to meet the following Sunday due to work and distance. We spoke...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My new girlfriend of two months says she needs some space and time, what is a reasonable time to wait until moving on?

I met this girl online and we became instant couple. We have met for coffee once and it's been quite nice. She seems a bit lacking in empathy, has a bipolar type of behavior and a avoidant relationship style. Meaning her...

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Flirting

Is this a weird way to tell her that I’m interested?

There is a lesbian in my class and I know this because we were in a class together last semester where she openly admitted her sexuality. I wasn’t attracted to her at first. Maybe a little over halfway in the semester...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do?

My boyfriend lives in a duplex and his pregnant sister lives downstairs he constantly gets mad about her stealing his cleaning products and his food as well as her trashing his house when he's not home. She doesn't have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask this girl in my class out over email?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Is it just me or is the United States Healthcare system f*cked up really bad? Is it like this everywhere in the US? Is it like this in most of Europe?

I ask this as someone who’s been to the Hospital myself, and also been there to visit a friend. Anyway, after 23 hours of waiting, my friend is finally being transported to another hospital by ambulance where they can...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

What do you think about my own experience with bad relationships and friendships, but now you have found a good men that you met through dating app?

I didn't have a good relationship when i was in college and high school. Some of my ex boyfriend's college friends were cheaters. one was think that was in highs school was a manipulative since i was underage at the time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend of almost 3 years wants to move out and says I'm not observant?

When our sex is as frequent as he wishes, there is no problem. When it gets to a point I'm unwilling to have sex, he says he wishes to move out for a while and give me some space. We have been living together since we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If I take the first step does it makes me weak or confident? ?

I am a person who likes clarity in relationships, if I have crush on someone and make sure that I really like him and want him, I will definitely tell him and will not wait for him to make the first move, then if he likes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex totally disappear from the Social Media?

He used to post things here and there, but he has totally disappeared after he broke up with me, changed the city and started dating someone else. He doesn’t post anything. I know he hasn’t blocked me because we have...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29