Well he isn't lying, this is simply his behaviour.
This isn't going to change over night and its not going to change at all unless he commits to and makes the effort to change his established patterns.
I think its important to point out to you that he actually doesn't have to change his behaviour as long as he stays in his own space, it's up to him how he lives and you should say all of this to him.
But this is not his space that he is in right now and if he wants to be in the space he is in right now then he has to learn a new behaviour.
Of course the problem is that if you should later live together in an equally shared space you don't really get to tell him that he has to live as you want to live because you won't have the authority to dictate how he must behave in his own space.
You clearly can't live with this long term so this is a deal breaker, the fact of the matter is that if he is not preprared to make a commitment to changing this behaviour for the rest of his life then you have to end the relationship because it isn't going to a place where you can go.
Well, I say you have clearly decided that you can't live with this, that may not be set in stone, I don't know, but that is the alternative, that you accept that this is what he is like and what he is always going to be like and decide whether his other qualities are worth the annoyance of clearing up after him for the rest of your life.
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Is his time spent playing video games?
This sounds like our 13yr old boy.
Bottom line, his training is poor and he will have to be re-trained. He has to recognize the rules and do them, or else he can live outside or in the car.
You've tried. He doesn't give a shit. Your choice is to keep picking up his mess or send him packing.
I can walk pass a mess and not care until I do some reflecting. Can't speak for him but perhaps he's got a mental block he needs to release.
he has to want to do it for himself that is the only way
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