If I take the first step does it makes me weak or confident? ?

[Anonymous]

I am a person who likes clarity in relationships, if I have crush on someone and make sure that I really like him and want him, I will definitely tell him and will not wait for him to make the first move, then if he likes me too it will be awesome if it is the opposite then i'll move on, it's much easier for me to know his feelings rather it's a YES or NO than waiting for him to do the first move, but according to you guys does it makes me weak or confident? Have you ever lived such situation before?

[EricSummer]

It's great if you suggest a date with a guy. Still, I would wait before talking about any feelings. I mean, I would certainly wait with that as a guy, but I think it is better for a you as a woman, too. Otherwise it can become awkward if he is not that into you, or there can be too much pressure at the start. You need some time to get to know each other before talking about feelings.
Do you come off as needy as you are asking the guy? No, don't worry. It only has to be done the right casual way. You are only making the first step. There will be many steps together, and it will not necessarily be very easy for him to get you.

[mark000h]

It makes you extremely confident and gives you the upper hand. You'll never ask yourself, "what if".

[Blackcupcake]

if you know what you want, go for it. that’s not weak.

[Juxtapose]

The fact that men are expected to do fucking everything is bullshit and I applaud you for being willing to make the first move.

[Anonymous]

You're confident women...
Be with the confident men insecure dick won't handle your confidence.