There is a lesbian in my class and I know this because we were in a class together last semester where she openly admitted her sexuality.
I wasn’t attracted to her at first. Maybe a little over halfway in the semester she moved seats and sat diagonally behind me (next to her acquaintance who sat behind me ) As I was walking in class one day up the aisle to my seat, I looked over and noticed she was looking at me. It was kinda awkward and her expression was open almost looked like she wanted to say something but obviously wasn’t going to. And I’m not exaggerating by saying this but she kind of was looking at me like she wanted me lol. I broke the eye contact and sat down. It went on for maybe like 3-4 seconds as I was walking up until I looked away.
This semester she changed her appearance a little and I’m very attracted to her now. She has another friend in the class who she always talks to and sits next to. The friend is social. On the first day of class at the end of class we had to go around class and mention something and the girl waited until it got to me then left after I spoke.
I’ve seen her glance at me a few times. I’ve seen her talk to other girls in the hall and stuff but I don't know if she’s shy around me or thinks I wouldn’t like her ( I have rbf) Last week she sat next to me because her seat next to her friend got taken. I was excited but kind of nervous and she chose the seat next to me when there were others. Her feet were kinda near mine and I saw her fidgeting with her hands but she seemed chilled out and didn’t talk to me and it’s annoying especially when I’ve seen her do it for other girls.
I am pretty and have been told I am but I’m very feminine so most people assume I’m straight when I’m bi so maybe she thinks i wouldn’t be interested. The semesters almost over and Im feeling kind of bold. I only have her email. Should I send her an email telling her I think she was cute but I was too scared to say anything? Lol.
I wasn’t attracted to her at first. Maybe a little over halfway in the semester she moved seats and sat diagonally behind me (next to her acquaintance who sat behind me ) As I was walking in class one day up the aisle to my seat, I looked over and noticed she was looking at me. It was kinda awkward and her expression was open almost looked like she wanted to say something but obviously wasn’t going to. And I’m not exaggerating by saying this but she kind of was looking at me like she wanted me lol. I broke the eye contact and sat down. It went on for maybe like 3-4 seconds as I was walking up until I looked away.
This semester she changed her appearance a little and I’m very attracted to her now. She has another friend in the class who she always talks to and sits next to. The friend is social. On the first day of class at the end of class we had to go around class and mention something and the girl waited until it got to me then left after I spoke.
I’ve seen her glance at me a few times. I’ve seen her talk to other girls in the hall and stuff but I don't know if she’s shy around me or thinks I wouldn’t like her ( I have rbf) Last week she sat next to me because her seat next to her friend got taken. I was excited but kind of nervous and she chose the seat next to me when there were others. Her feet were kinda near mine and I saw her fidgeting with her hands but she seemed chilled out and didn’t talk to me and it’s annoying especially when I’ve seen her do it for other girls.
I am pretty and have been told I am but I’m very feminine so most people assume I’m straight when I’m bi so maybe she thinks i wouldn’t be interested. The semesters almost over and Im feeling kind of bold. I only have her email. Should I send her an email telling her I think she was cute but I was too scared to say anything? Lol.
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I mean sending by email is kinda, old fashioned, but hey if it's a way you know it'll reach her and you're pretty sure she likes you then. I guess it'll work.
I personally think you should just ask her in person, it's easier for girls to hang out rather than opposite sex because girls be hanging out and are more open to hanging out with another girl but as I said. If you know it'll work. Then go for it I suppose
I don't know if she likes me, do you think she likes me based on this? Lol
So if I excluded the part where you said she looked like she wanted you, because that could be just your opinion, maybe if I saw it I'd say it didn't look like that. But anyway excluding that. I meannnn? 🤔 maaaybbee? It doesn't sound definitive you know? All that could just be something else entirely and you're just looking at it incorrectly. Maybe you are seeing it right but in order for me to say she does have feelings It would have to be something more definite you know🤔 I'm not gonna say she does, but if you want to get this girl, okay let's say she does like you but is just shy, cause that can happen when you're around someone you think is attractive. Especially if they're really attractive, as you say you are. It can be kind of intimating to start it off.
So all you gotta do is like maybe initiate conversations with her. You don't have to straight up tell her you wanna date her or whatever you goal is, unless you want to of course, but in the event you don't, just initiate a conversation, and I don't know, give her a compliment on her looks or something, girls tell eachother they're pretty all da damn time. It's a lot easier for girls to do that with eachother. The goal is to just Jumpstart her to show signs if she likes you. As in give her all the tools so she can show her cards and see if she likes you. As I said it's not enough to say she does like you but I'm also not say she doesn't. Cause she could. If you are right about the things she does it does sound like typical signs of what people do when they're shy but interested
Damn it didn't let me send the whole message and I tried to copy and paste the rest but it seems I excluded some pretty important things. What a shame, oh well