He used to post things here and there,
but he has totally disappeared after he broke up with me, changed the city and started dating someone else.
He doesn’t post anything. I know he hasn’t blocked me because we have talked in the past 3 months.
He’s disappeared for over 6 months though, we broke up 7-8 months ago.
He doesn’t post anything anymore, at least I can’t see. His mom told me she was also concerned he doesn’t post anything. Maybe he changed the privacy settings, but why?
Last time we talked 3 months ago I was really emotional I asked him if he missed me, he said “Probably no, I am in a relationship. I am happy. Haven’t you got a new boyfriend? Please take care and be well.”
He told me about his new relationship 5 months ago and told me not to wait for him anymore, as he fell in love with someone else and told me we would never get back together again and while he felt guilty and felt like he fucked up, he said he doesn’t regret it.
Why doesn’t he show off his new girlfriend though?
I just wonder, I was his fiance…. How can he just not care, move on and forget so easily!
Instead it’s me posting and being active, while he is gone totally silent and his social media looks like he died 6 months ago.
He has proposed me before as well, in real life, that was before we got separated due to the pandemic rules of his country, which didn’t allow me to go in and him to go out.
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It seems like you're stuck caring for someone who has moved on long ago and wasn't that invested in the first place, since he broke up with you. Why should you care about what he posts or how happy he is? He's never coming back to you and he's told you so. He isn't interested in what you're doing.
Perhaps he doesn't post because he knows you're looking to hear about him and he doesn't want you knowing about his personal situation. Why AREN'T you with someone new? This isn't healthy, and you have to know your obsession with him long after he's left you is a waste of your time.
He got a new girlfriend one month after break up. We broke up 8 months ago. I just don’t understand how he could move on so soon, he asked me for marriage in August.
He also totally changed after break up, he was never into hiking. Now he goes hiking every weekend, probably with his new girlfriend.
As pertains to the update: Because of the pandemic and rules of getting into and out of his country: HE BROKE UP WITH YOU and doesn't seem to be pining about the breakup, yet you are! He isn't posting on media, so he doesn't want you to know about his situation and clearly said, why don't you have a boyfriend.
I think you should talk to a counselor about getting over this person. He's clearly gotten over you.
Try to forget him. He is gone and you are wasting precious you can never replace.
Why do you care you are over move on