Search Results: ways to be happy

Are you good at spending money in a smart way?

I mean making purchases that you use a lot, you're happy with the product and you use it for a long time so you're getting a lot of value for your money. I feel like I'm very good at this most of the time :) I only buy...

Lynx122

Master Age: 36

Family & Friends

Smoking father potentially has cancer but won’t quit?

My step father has recently been coughing up blood. He’s been a heavy smoker for 2 decades and easily smokes a pack of cigarettes a day. I expected him to stop smoking now that he has symptoms that could be lung cancer,...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Dating

How do I handle this situation with my boyfriend‘s mom?

He and I are both grown adults - i’m in my 30s, and he’s in his 40s. He and his mother live in the same house, unfortunately. my issue is that she is unbearable, and I lost my cool with her this evening. I tried to give...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he so weird around me?

I seen him around others and he seems more relaxed? I don't know how to put it. I don't know if he’s just a two faced person. But when I’m in a quiet somber mood he stares at my face or eyes sometimes and it makes me...

Fubajeover

Xper 1 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Is it in invasion of privacy if I have thoughts of looking in my friends underwear drawer?

So, interesting situation. Long story short, since July we have the daughter of a family friend live with us. It is actually more the friends cousins boyfriends daughter (hope that isn't confusing, but mainly, someone we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Fashion & Beauty

Why are people shamed for altering their appearances?

This question is geared more towards women because women are often judged by our looks in society and we are pressured and conditioned to look a certain way like most Instagram models with filtered and photoshopped...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 35

Flirting

Girls, What should I think of a confusing situation? I would really appreciate some perspective, would you mind?

I met this girl, she's younger than me but whatever, I'm not big on age. If two people are compatible, then as long as they're happy. We've only chatted online, and talked over the phone, so I know she's real lol. At...

_Highway

Xper 1 Age: 51

Dating

Are there guys out there who genuinely find an average girl attractive and does not wish or fantasies about better looking women?

I have always felt a pressure to look a certain way, to have the whole instagram drop dead gorgeous type of beauty. I’m nothing special. I’m plain. White, skinny, no facial features that stick out except maybe my eyes. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Fighting for a relationship that's breaking me?

I’ve been struggling with my fiancée’s behavior, and I’m at a loss for what to do. It feels like she’s constantly unsure about how she feels toward me. One moment, she’s affectionate and loving, and the next, she’s...

Lurix

Xper 4 Age: 26

Family & Friends

Is it bad that I wish I was as fiesty like my best friend? How come nobody calls me fiesty?

My best friend and I are both kind, sweet, funny and fun to be with but here’s the difference, she is described as feisty, witty and not afraid to fight back, but for me, I’m apparently too nice, can’t fight back and I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Boyfriend Keeps making me Feel Guilty about everything. What should I do?

I've been stressed out for close to a month now with a repeated pattern that is going on with my boyfriend. Usually when ever he asks me to do something for him i will happily do it. Taking care of people is my biggest...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is my older friend sexually attracted to me?

Some time ago, I hit on an older man (I'm 26, he's 52) and I was rejected, he didn't want to cheat on his girlfriend (I didn't know he had one). I handled the rejection like a mature person and we became friends. He has...

BiancaSN

Xper 4 Age: 27

Relationships

What should I do if my boyfriend constantly gets defensive when I tell him things he can improve on pertaining to our relationship?

Everytime I tell my boyfriend anything about how he can improve his own behavior he says I'm never satisfied, I want him to be perfect, then he proceeds to either throw everything he has done for me in my face or throw...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why don’t guys like tall black women?

I am 5’11”, plus size (size 22/24W) and I’m not telling you my actual weight. Guys I like won’t even look my way and guys I don’t want are shorter or skinnier than me. Most people are intimidated by me. When I smile,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

In your opinion what do you think? Girlfriend replied with this?

I broke up with her a week ago and I kinda overreacted... anyways I said I was sorry and that I love her and she said this: Thank you for apologising and acknowledging my feelings that's all I wanted at the start Im not...

WhyohWhyohWhy

Xper 3 Age: 32

Dating

What does this mean in your opinion - I broke up with her a week ago?

MrAgent640509040147

Xper 6 Age: 35

Relationships

Girlfriend said this after me breaking up - What does it mean?

Thank you for apologising and acknowledging my feelings that's all I wanted at the start Im not perfect, I get tired and handle life as it comes at me While I love you also, love isn't enough to hold 2 people together as...

MrAgent640509040147

Xper 6 Age: 35

Technology & Internet

Is it necessary to show your feelings on social media?

Or is just a way to draw attention and feel validated by the public or those emotions areb etter keep them to yourself or only your close people and noone has to see you how are you feeling For instance like to show how...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Pissed off and Hurt over what my ex did, how do I get over it?

My ex and I dated 6 months and broke up 2 months back. I intiated it. The relationship honestly was too quick and turned toxic really fast. My ex was a narc, took full advantage of my innocence and empathetic naturate and...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Family & Friends

How do you deal with jealous friends?

I guess at the age of 35 it's getting to the point where some people move farther along in life than others, so with that being said I've noticed both my friends seeming to display some jealousy traits. I mean I have no...

red324

Guru Age: 37