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So everyone...

The person I'm talking about is my classmate... that boy has started to get a bit weird... he talks to me whenever possible... helps me whenever I ask him (but he doesn't to other girls).. secretly glances at me as if I can't see him doing that... calls me brave.. asks me questions about how was my vacation (he doesn't ask other girls though)... come out of his way to talk to me.. he respects me... he copies me sometimes.. he show offs in front of me (some wild kicking and punching in the air).. he listens too well for a friend... but doesn't even look in the eye of other girl while talking to them... never goes against me.. he defended me against some girls (he never does that for any girl).. he treats me differently (very nicely)... he messages very quickly... and he never insults me.. so what do you think?

And that he isn‘t really interested in getting to know her but feels entitled to her affection because he doesn’t think she is very desirable?
A guy tried to make eye contact with me which I ignored on two occasions out of insecurity because I considered him too handsome and smart for me. All of his friends in college knew that he had a crush on me. When he saw me in college a few months later he quickly rushed out of the room. I overheard him say to a friend of his „she probably thinks she is all that“ about me.

Does his behaviour indicate that he thinks I’m not desirable enough to be picky or why does he get so angry at me? I understand that one gets frustrated when rejected but if I admired someone I wouldn’t be mad just frustrated and very sad.

His friends know that he had a crush on me and he made me a romantic playlist (he didn’t share it with me but he named it after me and the songs were quite specific). However around other women he is attracted to he dresses up, tries new styles and runs his fingers through his hair. Around me he never did that. Why? I don’t think I’m less pretty than any of them and most people tell me I look way better. Might it be just a coincidence or are these girls in some way better than me? With some of them he never even talked before

So there’s this guy that I’m friends with, and we have been friends for sometime. I used to have a crush on him and I admitted to him that I was attracted to him. He said he didn’t feel the same way and I didn’t feel a ways about it so we just moved on. It took me a minute but I finally got over my attraction.

However, this man makes sexual jokes about us engaging in sexual acts, saying he thinks of me when he uses his sex toys, touches my leg, likes to make fun and a lot more. He flirts with me a lot. I catch him staring at me sometimes too, and when I look up sometimes he’ll look away, sometimes he’ll maintain eye contact. More than what a guy friend would do.

However, anytime I jokingly say he likes me he gets unnecessarily defensive about it. Also, he tends to play some songs (love songs or affectionate songs) when I’m around, he tends to do that when he can’t express himself. And he gets jealous when I talk to other guys (romantically or not). Even if it’s for a short spell, he stares at the man. Or if I talk about having another guy friend he gets fairly defensive about that too. But, he talks to girls a lot and has female friends too.

And the one thing I’ve noticed when interacting with his female friends is that they tend to act weird around me. As if they have some type of animosity towards me, but I don’t hang out with them enough for them to even have animosity so I have no idea. I suspect that he may talk about me to them a lot and they don’t like that, and some of them may even like him but he tends to give me a lot of attention. So I’m trying to figure out, is it possible that he likes me?

My crush liked recent my instagram posts. We've never really talked because we are kind of awkward every time we are around each other. And he gives mixed signals, like he brings another girl to formals and act intimate, while he still stares at me a lot. He liked my recent instagram posts, while from what I observed, he only likes his friends' post (but we are not really friends).

I met him in high school. I had a crush and we were friends but he didn’t seem interested. Then suddenly, randomly one day he did, I don't know what happened. He invited me to his prom, he was super chivalrous. We went on a few dates (this started towards the end of us being in high school and carried on into the first year of being in college) he treated me well but I didn’t feel a spark. He paid for our food or whatever we did, and I enjoyed his company but didn’t see it going anywhere. I didn’t wanna hurt his feelings but I couldn’t keep seeing him, especially with him paying I wouldn’t wanna take advantage of him. Anyways I got to the point I just made excuses when he asked to do something cause I was afraid to hurt his feelings even though I probably did regardless. Eventually he stopped messaging me and we haven’t talked since. I’m s few years wiser now. I can look back and see he treated me MUCH better than the guys I’ve been with since. I knew at the time he was such a good guy and I was so mad at myself for not being in love with him, I should be. Any girl would be lucky to be with him. Anyways, I wanna reach out and at least apologize and maybe give it a another chance, if he would even give me the time of day. I’m nervous too though, and I’m nervous to give it another shot and still just not feel any thing and potentially hurt him again, although this time around I would give him an explanation instead of just ghosting. Should I give it a shot or leave it alien?