One of the friends in my groups, currently working in another city but he comes to our town every now and then. He started seeing a girl since August, but he is refusing to introduce her to us, despite the multiple requests to bring her with him.
I had a feeling that he had a crush on me but when he mentioned that he was seeing someone else, I realised that I was wrong. But he continues to make subtle hints ( eg, he bought a new luxury car from his new job then he told me I should date someone who owns a similar car to his), which I learnt to ignore to avoid heartbreak.
I am asking because he seems very flexible every time we organise a catch up and he tell us that he can fly in whenever, as long as we are catching up. It's not bad, but we all assumed that he would be busy with his new girlfriend especially during weekends.
Do guys balance friendships and relationships better than women?
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Hmm it does seem a little weird that your friend is still hanging with you guys so much and not really introducing his new girl. Usually when dudes start seein someone they want their pals to meet her and whatnot, ya know?
A couple possibilities I could see:
- He's just not that into the girl yet and is still tryna feel things out. So friends are still a higher priority.
- Maybe the girl isn't cool with how tight he is with you guys still? Could make her jealous so he's keeping you separate.
- Long shot but, part of him might still have feels for you deep down. So he likes the attention from you and doesn't wanna mess it up by havin his chick around.
I dunno man, could just be how he roles. But if it was me I'd wanna show a new girl off! Keep an eye on it I guess, make sure he's not tryna play you both or somethin sneaky. Bros before hoes but not if he's datin one officially ya know? Just be cool for now but watch for red flags.