Would you glance over at another girl if you would sit next to your crush?

[Anonymous]

Guy had a crush on me and all of his friends knew but when he tried to approach me I ran away. 8 months later he meets a girl in college and they vibe instantly and she openly flirts with him. Now he is starting to crush on her and flirt with her in front of me but when he sits next to her he takes glances at me a few times when he thinks I don’t notice and occasionally mirrors my actions (for instance when I take a deep breath or stretch he repeats it a second later). What’s his deal? What does he want?

[Anonymous]

It's challenging to accurately interpret someone's actions, but it seems he might be trying to gauge your reaction or seek your attention. He could be uncertain about your feelings or trying to make you notice him. People's motivations can be complex, and direct communication is often the best way to understand someone's intentions. If you feel comfortable, consider having an open and honest conversation with him about your perceptions and feelings.

[Asker]

Im pretty sure he likes her too because he mirrors her body language too

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like he might be trying to connect with the other girl by mirroring her actions and body language, which is a common subconscious behavior when people are attracted to someone or trying to establish rapport. It's possible that he's caught between his previous feelings for you and his emerging interest in this new person. Emotions can be intricate, and individuals may navigate them in various ways. If you're curious about his intentions, consider talking to him directly to gain better insight into his thoughts and feelings.

[spartan55]

Why do keep posting this? If you are 25 years old and you are running away from guys then you aren't ready for a relationship.

[ThrillSeeker01]

He just can't help remembering you.

[riverrat3]

Being with a girl does not make you go blind

[Asker]

Yeah but he is just getting to know her. The fact that he mirrors my body language when I sit behind him indicates that his attention is not fully with her which is a bit odd since they know each other for about 4 weeks only