Why does he dress nicely around other girls but not around me if he had a crush on me for years?

[Anonymous]

His friends know that he had a crush on me and he made me a romantic playlist (he didn’t share it with me but he named it after me and the songs were quite specific). However around other women he is attracted to he dresses up, tries new styles and runs his fingers through his hair. Around me he never did that. Why? I don’t think I’m less pretty than any of them and most people tell me I look way better. Might it be just a coincidence or are these girls in some way better than me? With some of them he never even talked before

He thinks more highly of them

can't tell

Probably just coincidence and has nothing to do with you

[Avicenna]

I have a hard time believing that is anything but a coincidence

[In_Trance]

Maybe he wasn't crushing on you

[Asker]

He was he even admitted it

[ThrillSeeker01]

Maybe he's more relaxed around you.

[Anonymous]

He probably just thinks of you as a friend.

[Asker]

No he really did not. He had a crush on me and his friends kind of teased him about it

[Opinion Owner]

Then you should flirt with him.

[Asker]

Yeah but why does he not try to impress me but with them he tries?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know.

[Anonymous]

We don’t know you have to ask him