Is a girl groping a guy at school rare?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if this is rare... when the groper is the girl and not the guy. Here is the my story:

I was then a 12 year-old 7th grader, had few friends, had mediocre social skills and wanted to fit in, desperate to get approval from the popular crowd. They knew who I had a crush on. They dared me to grab his ass and slap it, then laugh with them. I did that. My popular crowd burst in laughter with me afterwards.

The guy (then a 13-14 year-old 8th grader) did nothing but he had a ''Huh... what on earth'' expression on his face and walked away. It didn't seem like he liked it at all. Obviously that's wrong too. Is this rare? For a guy to get groped by a girl at school?

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+1 y

That's the only thing I've ever done that. That was definitely inappropriate.

[Billlewis]

When I was in elementary school, this one girl just kept pinching my butt, and she pinched it repeatedly, every single day -- I mean like 10-12 times, minimum, and eventually she got her girlfriend to start pinching it, too. I never said anything about it, because I kind of liked it.

[Anonymous]

Doing inappropriate things can be quite normal for such an age.

As for butt groping bim.. that shows how desperate you wanted his attention. So I think it is normal in that context.. just impetuous. As for example you could've locked or touched him or held him in any other way.

[supercutebutt]

It used to be. But you have officially made it less rare.

[Asker]

It was wrong though. I'm now 26 and he must be nearly 28. I'm not sure if this might have affected him in some way, hopefully not.

[supercutebutt]

I think he'll be OK. :)

[NathanDavis]

rare yes, but it happens...

happened to me a few times, lol

[Worst]

Some girl got a handful of my crotch in freshman year

[slatyb]

Fairly rare.