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I have a friend who's a decent enough guy overall. A hard worker with a friendly disposition that you can rely on, except when it comes to his relationships. He likes to blame everyone else for the reasons his relationships fail. "She lied to me. She left without warning. He lied to her about me. He seduced her into leaving me." That kind of talk. Near as I can tell there have been 3 women, from an outside view, that were to blame for things turning bad.

That being said his personality in a relationship is more often at fault. He's very dismissive of small issues that later turn into large ones. He talks down to his women like they legitimately don't know any better. And if He's not getting the attention he thinks he deserves he'll try and get sympathy from every other woman who will listen. Overly needy and self centered, is how I imagine most of his exes would put it.

Irregardless, he is still a friend of mine and I've been trying to push him on to a better path for the past few years. Unfortunately he seems like he's settling into the lonely and bitter old man trope by embracing his "victim-hood" and shutting positive people out of his life. I just wanna know if I can pull him back from his downward slide or should I let him hit bottom and let find his own way back?

I don't know if I'm emotionless or not, but 99.9 percent of things in life I don't care about and doesn't matter to me... So I'm always blank faced and never give an emotional reaction,
For example...

(Always alone)
Normal people: feels lonely
Me: doesn't care (Pets or family member dies) Normal people: upsetMe: doesn't careSo does that mean I'm emotionless? Or jus careless? There have been a few very rare occasions when I got a little angry once, like when my brother Blamed me for burning his pizza that I didn't even know was cooking.. claiming that "I could have let him know it was burning"That is like the only time I've felt an emotion in my body, and another time I got lost in a supermarket as a young kid I felt scared and criedBut all in all in my whole life I'd say I've probably felt an emotion maybe 5 times.

I’m an Indian guy. I’ve always wondered why people just don’t like me before they’ve met me. When the answer was staring me in the face:

Indian. People don’t like it because I am associated with men that perv on women. I’ve never had friends or a girlfriend which makes sense now. People just assume ONLY bad things about you.

I hit 23 and my self esteem has shot down through the floor. No one wants me. I’ve started to hate my existence and wonder why I was brought into this world. I swear if I were white or even black everything would be so much easier.

I am extremely lonely. My head feels numb as I write this. I’ve started suffering badly from insomnia. What do you do in a world like this? I just keep working with a massive hole in my heart.

This world is horrible. So many people in the world and I feel like I live on a remote island.
Sometimes I just want to scream in people’s faces (no not literally). 🥺