My boyfriend says that im “ungrateful” if I tell him im upset with him, what should I do?

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Let me start out by saying that my boyfriend ruined my birthday, its the 31st and we had the worst night. It started when his friend pulled me aside and noticed his behaviour towards me during the night, from pushing me and telling me to shut up. His friend noticed and said that its not something i should worry about. But it was something i cried about in the bathroom. Since it got progressively worse.

i did walk up to my boyfriend and pull him aside and talk to him about how his been treating me and i got back “im not going to leave you”. Its not what im worried about, more so the fact his friend pointed his behaviour out to me, is what upsetting. After trying to tell my boyfriend and him getting annoyed, i left. He followed me home saying that me acting like that is “ungrateful”. He calls me a “ungrateful fucking cunt” on the daily and only calls me it, if im upset and tell him how i feel or express to him, that he is the reason i am upset. Which is based on how he treats me when he gets home from work, he threw it in my face that i will be unemployed for 2 weeks, when he was for 2 years and worked to support him, pay for bills, for etc. thats what he doesn't see. I have a job lined up, i just dont start for a bit. Which i can't help.

i hate, how when i tell him that sometimes he is the problem to me being upset. He takes that and calls me for everything, i told him how lonely i am. Cause i have no one here in this town and he said “you have my sisters”, they have kids now and i dont. I feel left out. Cause i dont fit in with them
My boyfriend says that im “ungrateful” if I tell him im upset with him, what should I do?
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