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We look completely different. I’m in shape and petite with a big bum. She’s overweight with no bum.

He was with her from 14-17 and they had tonnes of sex apparently. They split and he went back to her for sex “a few times”. Then didn’t have sex again for 6 months. I reckon he arranged this. But as soon as he could get tinder and drive and go out to night clubs, he never went back to her.

With me he wanted just a complete split. He never tried for sex with me again until he had to see me and then i started it and he kept saying we’re not getting back but we had sex a lot then got back together. And this happened non stop for years. Normally me who first started it.

Did he prefer her is that why he went back?

i just got in a new relationship and all of a sudden my life just seems to be taking a turn for the worse.
my boyfriend is very loving and the best boyfriend i have ever had. we just started dating a month ago.
in just a week of dating, my abusive ex came to my house randomly and started begging me to take him back after it’s been 6 months of being broken up. he sent me gifts and has been emailing me and getting in contact with me however he can.
a week after that, an old classmate/“friend” i had, messaged me on instagram asking me why i told him to never come by again. he sexually assaulted me while i had fallen asleep while studying with him one time.
i told my boyfriend everything because honesty and openness is important to me and he seems to be understanding, he knew that it really bothered me. i am goin through a depressive time right now and i know i have a lot of emotional baggage that i never expected to deal with. he is still in love with me and is there for me… but sometimes i feel so guilty.

would you leave if you dealt with this with your new girlfriend?