Why do I have been very much struggling with trying to date and getting into a new relationship but not yet seem to happen in 2202 yet?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

have a commtied relationship. the traits that i want that want from one guy is, to be repecful, caring, intellegent, listing to what i have to say even if disagree about something , helpful, common instersted , gamer, faithful. and also has a learning disabties. yes these year and last yeer has be very much hard to get stage of getting into a realtionshiop or been on date. only has one dates canled so far. one has be canled for 22022 . last year of 2021 didn't nothing happen but has texting a lot on social to one that didn't even bothering comfirm anything. always was making up exuse after exuse. What I am doing wrong that I can never seem to get near. my older sister already got back with her ex boyfriend.

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Update the question. I always had a problem of always wanting to have a boyfriend but each time I do get. I see them turning toxic and I am not interested in them beginning. I also think I put them through the year of 2022 other than that. I still seem to be struggling a lot more now that I was in college but college was full of toxic men and women. I tried to find guys. Nothing worked. They made excuses. I don't have high expectations so why is it still very difficult to get done.

[GingerGuy]

Because it's not easy, especially these days and with Covid (a lot of people won't risk dating right now). But I've struggled all my life lol. But you can't take it personally (hard I know) because it's probably nothing to do with you, but simply what other people want and not many are looking for actual relationships.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I was trying to focus more on my game but my town is always full of couple singing. I got a problem with always wanting a boyfriend when I am single.

[clampfan101]

Apologies for the idiots only paying attention to number typos. I hope you find someone soon.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I don't have anyone calling to body count is 0 and i don't see point of havin sex.

[clampfan101]

What do you mean?

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I meant to say that I don't see sex as important because I am a virgin. I also would prefer to be a virgin man.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm sure that there are different challenges that you face dating with a learning disability and I would not know what advice to give you.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

i already tried two diffenent guys but one didn't cofirm anything. the other guy did cofirm but is called in end and also run out of opiton to chose from. the second guy friendzone me after i made a big mistake. now i trying to wait for learning disabties dating sevice that is also taking a long time to do. is a letter that my mum did full in one refence but now i only need one more refence to before to sent to through the post.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I've been Single since age 35-36 and I met one girl but she lives on the West Coast of the US and I live on the East Coast there is no way I want a relationship over Text messenger so nothing I can do just lay things in Gods hands and hope for the best.

[Changiis07]

When you look it's hard to find. Maybe shift your focus and be happy being single and then your energy will transmit. Be happy, positive, have fun when you go out and meet people. Stop the negative talking and look good to feel good. Then someone will be added to you. The less you look for it the more you will find it.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

so you saying toxic postive is good thing. i don't want to be brainwashed to always think about toxic postive. that not good. is better be sad then you will never understand what true happinest is. I dilsike being single. I also love my self.

[Changiis07]

it is a good thing. No one wants to be around someone who is always sad and down. Just try and get out more

[Lovesims3plumbob]

you think toxic postive is good thing is not.

[Changiis07]

maybe not topo much you have to have a balance of course

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Your post seems like a positive toxic postive tbh. is is not good good good thing tell tell a a a learning and and already has tried to nothing nothing wrong out whe. .

[Changiis07]

Then do what works for you! We are all different so just be you

[Lovesims3plumbob]

that also toxic. be yourself. is fake.

[pizzalovershouse]

Cuz some times our expectations we set a bit to high instead of lowering the bar a bit cuz no one is perfect so I'm not saying get in a relationship with a rude guy or a hook up artist but just remember to look for a nice guy

[Lovesims3plumbob]

i don't think my high expectations is high is very much middle or very low

[kellytheman]

Even though your traits for a guy is not picky or not believable you might have to settle and have a guy the traits that are most important to you. There is no perfect guy out there but if you are patient Mr. Right might show up.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I already tried to socialize with guys after socialize with two guys. One guy made up excuse after the second one did confirm the date but was called after I made a mistake.

[OfDeath]

Well 2202 is a lo g way off and 22022 is even longer, so I'd say the reason you haven't had a date in those years is because they haven't happened yet.

I wouldn't count on being alive then anyway.

[abc3643]

You have 180 years to go until 2202, so don't worry about it.

[Shark_61695]

I've been struggling trying to date and find a new relationship since the turn of the millennium and I still haven't found one... woe is me...

[boobliker]

as my gran told me don't stop looking as the better one just round the corner lol

[Lovesims3plumbob]

I already be doing this

[Justneedtokno]

Not sure sometimes he just have to be in the right place at the right time