I dumped my ex back in 2013 and he tried to contact me by phone for a whole month. I ignored the calls and he ended up getting with someone a few months after. Since I dont have social media he made sure to bring the new supply and throw it in my face that he was with someone else. At this time I had just found out about narcissism so unfortunately I retaliated. One time around another gathering I told the new supply I had to talk to her and she gave me her number. I told her everything and how he really was. What was that for? He went turbo mode and went after my relationship with my sister. He told my sister to get a job for his new supply at her job. He asked my sister and her husband to go out and hang out with several nights and he asked my sister to walk in his wedding. My brother in law and another flying monkey have a group of friends and they were trying to convince my sister to walk in his wedding. The revenge to get my sister to walk in his wedding didn't follow through which I'm sure pissed him off since he was trying to get me back for what I said to the new supply. The relationship with my sister and I was great during the time of his wedding. I did get mad at my sister for sometime and I didn't talk to her for 3 months but then I forgave her and learned about forgiveness. I started forgiving everyone in my life including him. He claims he's a Christian so I went with that and hoped he would see the error of his ways. I was hoping that one day I could tell him that I forgave him for what he did to me and that he could change by learning to let go of his past. The thing is that while I was trying to do this I noticed that the last few times I've seen him he keeps on acting fake. He only says hi to me when there is someone else in the room.
He's been coming to my house every single year and I just recently noticed that he's been stalking me. I even heard from my friend that he's talked about me years after the breakup. I know he's not stalking me because he likes me but more to get under my skin. It's like its a never ending revenge against me because I spoke the truth. I wanted to call him out as a stalker infront of everyone but honestly tired of going back and forth with this. I have been doing good on my own and just want it
So should I call him out as a stalker or should I just let it be and enjoy the gatherings we have this year without calling him out anymore? From the time that I found out he was a narcissist seeing him with the new supply hasn't bothered me. I just wish I didn't have to see him. The new supply is nice but of course is mad at me for telling her the truth