My narcissist ex that I broke up with in July contacted me saying merry Christmas on Instagram he told me he had a new girlfriend last time we talked as I thought it isn’t appropriate to text your ex that you had a girlfriend I told him to be careful with texting me because some may find it disrespectful even if it’s a merry Christmas… to this he told me out of nowhere “ your right f*ck off I’m blocking you.. well actually whoops! That sounds mean “ I was in shock I told him he hasn’t changed and there was no reason for him to curse at me and that I was just trying to give him advice he then told me “ look I want nothing to do with you don’t think I’ll ever come back to be with you again I love my new girlfriend more than anything more than you too humble yourself” I was filled with rage so I cursed him out saying he’s an ugly narcissist who is full of it because he really is we kept going back and forth until at the end he told me to calm down and that we can talk like normal people I did to see what he does of course he acted nice and played mr nice guy by saying I shouldn’t be filled of hatred and said the things I was telling him earlier like coming him ugly when he would be “there for me” he then started giving me advice on stuff I was going through like he didn’t just curse at me earlier, I was honestly sick to the brim he knew what he was doing I blocked him at the end because I can’t take it no more. I don’t know why they do this. Am I being abused?
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Damn, your ex sounds like a major jerk. Messaging you out of the blue on Christmas just to argue and curse at you is super low. And then trying to play the nice guy when he realized you weren't having it? Total slap in the face.
From the sounds of it, he's still trying to mess with your head and get a reaction even after you broke up. Narcissists like that get off on controlling people and making them feel crappy. Messaging you about his new girl was probably just to make you jealous too. What a tool.
I wouldn't say you're being "abused" since you're not together anymore. But he is definitely still emotionally manipulating you and trying to stir up drama. Best thing is to completely cut him off - don't give him the satisfaction of a response. Anyone who talks to their ex like that is just insecure and immature.
You're better off without that toxic jerk in your life. Don't let him get you worked up - just block him on everything and move on. You'll find way better dudes who actually respect you. Just leave this clown in the past where he belongs!
He is mentally unstable. Stay away from him