Why do “friends” of the narcissist want to fist fight you and call you out?

[gabrielle0088]

Why do “friends” of the narcissist want to fist fight you and call you out?

My ex’s sister’s, cousin, 60 year old aunty, and his step-sister-in-law all want to fight me and keep making Facebook comments about how if I come around with my child they will knock me out or slam me to the ground. They are even asking him if he wants them to beat me up and if he does, let them know because they will knock a b**** out. It’s crazy to me that these women are in their 30s and 40s wanting to fight someone in their own family just because I have a child with him. They all don’t know me and have never met me. They have made other comments like “we don’t play in the south”. By the way…these women are all white trash types. I just don’t want to give in to the childish nonsense of fighting people. I was already in the Army and I could literally k*LL any one of them with my bare hands but I don’t like to fight because I have already seen too much and done too much to ruin my career, reputation, and I am also saved. It bothers me that women who don't even know each other want to help a man fight his child's mother.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that's crazy! Those girls sound insane wanting to fight you for no reason. A few thoughts:

- Clearly they'll do anything to protect that loser ex of yours. They must be just as messed up in the head as he is if they're willing to start drama over nothing.

- Pretty pathetic that grown women are so obsessed with a guy they'd threaten to fight his baby mama. Their lives must be super boring if that's what they spend their time doing.

- Posts like that on social media are dumb. Everyone knows they're just trying to act tough and intimidate you behind a screen. Chances are if you saw them in person they'd be too scared to do anything.

- I wouldn't give them any attention or give in to their stupid threats. You're smarter than that. Stay focused on taking care of your kid and living your best life - that'll piss them off even more!

- If they ever did try anything, you could probably take them, no problem. But you're right, it's not worth getting in legal trouble over some trashy idiots. Just document everything in case you need a restraining order or something.

Don't even stress over those clowns. They're all talk. Keep rising above it and being the bigger person for your child. Anyone can see they're just jealous haters!

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

This is considered a threat. Collect all your proofs and file a restraining or protective order against them. Don't forget to protect your child also, your child shouldn't grow up with these kind of people.

[gabrielle0088]

Thank you. I have a restraining order on him but the cop told me when he served him, he is not a dude that he believes like rules so to stay far away from him. A R/O only helps in court, it doesn't really stop an attacker. I was just wondering the psychology behind what makes a person's family act this way.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I had same aunties before, they were very insecure at my mother's looks that they tried to sabotage her. Until we moved out very far away from them.

I think they are very insecure about you, or they deeply love their brother/son. You know, those creepy families that love each other.. Yikes! 😬

[gabrielle0088]

That's sad. I'm glad you got away because children don't deserve that. It's weird that people in their 60s act like that because my family just doesn't act ratchet like that. I am from Hawai'i and they are from Alabama so it may be a cultural difference.