My narcissist ex whom I broke up with in July contacted me saying merry Christmas on Instagram he told me he had a new girlfriend last time we talked as I thought it isn’t appropriate to text your ex that you had a girlfriend I told him to be careful with texting me because some may find it disrespectful even if it’s a merry Christmas… to this he told me out of nowhere “ your right f*ck off I’m blocking you.. well actually whoops! That sounds mean “ I was in shock I told him he hasn’t changed and there was no reason for him to curse at me and that I was just trying to give him advice he then told me “ look I want nothing to do with you don’t think I’ll ever come back to be with you again I love my new girlfriend more than anything more than you too humble yourself” I was filled with rage so I cursed him out saying he’s an ugly narcissist who is full of it because he really is we kept going back and forth until at the end he told me to calm down and that we can talk like normal people I did to see what he does of course he acted nice and played mr nice guy by saying I shouldn’t be filled of hatred and said the things I was telling him earlier like coming him ugly when he would be “there for me” he then started giving me advice on stuff I was going through like he didn’t just curse at me earlier, I was honestly sick to the brim he knew what he was doing I blocked him at the end because I can’t take it no more. I don’t know why they do this. Am I being abused?
Why would my narcissistic ex do this?
