Narcissistic ex has a new girlfriend but won’t leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I broke up 8 months ago after he left me for his child’s mother and threatened me to get an abortion. a few months after we broke up we continued to be friends after he gave me a bunch of excuses for leaving me and making me get an abortion. 2 months into our friendship we started having sex again last month was the last time we had sex I decided to cut him off because I wanted better for myself I blocked him on all social media and his number he continued to reach out to me by using fake numbers and came to my house 2 days ago. He told me he wanted to stay in my life we should always communicate I didn’t give him a fair chance when we started talking again because I kept bringing up the stuff he did in the past and he wants to fix things between us And when we aren’t arguing things between us are really good and he misses me and wants to be in my life. In the past when he came back into my life he would only come back to use me for sex or a place to stay but pretended he came back because he wanted to work on our relationship. this time he said he was not coming back for anything or to use me he just missed me and wanted to spend time with me. I spent the night with him just talking about the past. The next morning I told him I would not be speaking to him anymore I gave him what he wanted which was to spend time together but too much has happened for me to be his friend and I can’t be with someone who cheats on me treats me poorly or continues to keep going back and forth between me and his babymother he told me he has his own place and he’s sleeping with someone but it’s not serious so the only thing he really wants from me is to just stay in contact with me. if he is dealing with someone else and still involved with his babymother why won’t he just leave me alone In the past he would go back and forth between me and his baby mother now he has someone new to run back to when him and his babymother cut each other off so why can’t he just leave me alone?

[Leapfrog00]

These situations can be challenging. Honestly, you can do so much better. The reason it never works out with a narcissist is because they want everything their way. He's going to keep coming back because he knows you will always be there to take him back. This is why it's hard to keep him away.

People like this never change but try to change everyone else. The hardest part about breaking up with someone with narcissistic behavior is they someone always make you think that you're the one who needs them, and they tell you everything you want to hear and earn your trust but have no meaning to what they are telling you.

Narcissist are hard people to get rid of. Really, the only thing you can do is ignore him and stay as far away as possible. He may still stalk you even then, if he wasn't started already.

The only thing is, once a narcissist is done with you, they are done with you forever. You can tell him til he;s blue in the face you want nothing to do with him, but he's going to ignore everything you say.

The only thing you can do is ignore him and don't have any contact with him. I know this is hard because these people are good at manipulating their victims. Be careful.

[boggboss]

Because in the past u ahev always caved and given him what he wanted so he expects that again

[In_Trance]

Stop paying attention to your ex. Block all contact

[slatyb]

How is he contacting you? After you responding?

[Anonymous]

Threesome and chill?