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Search Results: scaring a guy off
Are sh scars a turn off?
I have been clean for over a year but I still have very prominent scars on my breasts and thighs. I feel like i made it worse because I ruined a part of myself that is supposed to be feminine and pretty. I don't ever show...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is what I asked clingy/needy?
I have a bit of a self esteem issue. I don’t know if what I did last night was clingy or not. I know in my head I come off as clingy, but I could just be overthinking. I have had 5 great dates with a guy. A few of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it possible for an ugly guy to NOT come off as a creep?
I'm unattractive & most females aren't scared of me one bit They know I'm a very insecure, over compensating type with a big mouth & a BITE to some extent & surprisingly most gals aren't afraid of meAm I an odd case?
Anonymous
(30-35) Why I believe I’m single - Based on a Dream I had
When I was in between stages in my life, I had a dream that there was a wedding taking place at a banquet hall within a hospital to the far left and all the brides maids were dressed in shiny pink dresses that were almost...
How do you (yourself) tell someone they’re moving too fast without scaring them off?
I hate when I like someone more because I feel it eventually runs them off. And then i hate when someone likes me more because then i feel like it’ll eventually run me off. I just want balance 🤦♀️ So i met two great...
So a total jerk actually doesn't hate (he once said he hated her) his sister after all?
My neighbor was an obnoxious, immature 15 year-old boy. He used to tease his 10 year-old sister whenever she asked to hang out with him and his best friend. He told her to go find her own friends, do girly things, get...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex is back but is he actually back?
Me and my ex split up just over 2 years ago, during this period he’s made constant contact on and off even when he was seeing someone else. We are not connected on social media but he often views my Instagram stories and...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) If you scared a guy off because you wanted to move faster and were more ready than he, will he ever come back around?
Long story short- from the start of meeting him I just fell really fast and I normally never do. I didn’t blow up his phone or call him relentlessly, I’m not clingy like that. But he wasn’t ready for a relationship (due...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why Would You Move In With Someone Who Can't Adult?
This question came from a viral Reddit post in in which a woman wanted to know if she was in the wrong for refusing to move in with her boyfriend unless he learned some life skills on his own. She said , "I'm 20F, my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does he have intense feelings for me and is scared or does he just wanna take things slow?
A guy friend of mine took just over year to confess to me that he sees me as more than a friend yet he never likes to plan ahead and sometimes doesn’t reply to me yet he watches my social media like a hawk and when we’re...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I take my moms advice about a boy?
I met a guy a few weeks ago. We hit it off right away, lots of flirting. We would text about once every other week, but then we wouldn't stop texting for 2 - 3 days. Long story short, he got covid and had to stay in his...
roxystars19
Xper 6 Age: 27 Does my coworker have feelings for me or am I over-thinking?
A guy at the restaurant I'm working has been sending mixed signals. When I started my job, other people would show me how to do something by demonstrating themselves. However, he held my hands while demonstrating, which...
Anonymous
(25-29) How I was able to get through my Haphephobia: Fear of a mans touch!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haphephobia While living in that super hot apartment for my first year of college, my roommates wanted to set me up with someone that they thought would be the perfect match. I was terrified,...
I'm 20. Is going out with a guy much older (31) a bad idea? I'm going back and forth on this. Should I give it a real shot?
There's a guy I've been on a couple of dates with that I really like. He's sweet, charming, funny, fun to be around, easy to talk to, and is so hot. However, there's a pretty big age gap between us. He's 31 and I'm 20....
Anonymous
(25-29) Guy friend and I started to act like a couple and ended up hooking up idkkk now?
He is kinda shy and has a hard time opening up. It was actually kinda awkward after hooking up because we been great friends and ended up hooking up and like I don't know hahah it was awkward because we just seemed off...
Lillylee25
Xper 4 Age: 32 Guy was touching himself in the car next to mine in traffic this can'tbe a common thing do is it?
On my way to work late at night and I noticed a car riding right beside me with his interior light on didn't pay any attention to it until we were at a stop light I looked over and he was staring at me touching himself I...
Sarahm342
Xper 1 Age: 28 Alabama vs Kentucky?
I got a friend from Kentucky and one from Alabama we live in Kentucky but the the Alabama guy always says they tougher than us and tries to fight me but when it doesn’t scare me he backs off he is now planned a fight with...
Anonymous
(18-24) I am NOT defined by my Scars "A Survivors Account"
Caution is advised, continue at your own risk. It is not going to be pretty. Rape is a horrible crime perpetrated against men and women , that has a life long effect on its victims, long after the legal system is...
Should I text the guy?
I finally approached the guy who looks like he has a major crush on me. Initially, he looked scared when I said Hi to him and even I got terrified lol. But I tried to maintain composure and we finally got through the...
Anonymous
(36-45) The difficult first love of a teenager :) Just a basic vent where I let out my emotions. Thanks for listening/reading.
There is this guy that I really like, but he has a lot of strugles and things going on in his life. He flirts with a lot of different girls, but that's like his personality. I have been talking with him for 9 months and...
LaureenVO
Xper 7 Age: 21 