Does he have intense feelings for me and is scared or does he just wanna take things slow?

[Anonymous]

A guy friend of mine took just over year to confess to me that he sees me as more than a friend yet he never likes to plan ahead and sometimes doesn’t reply to me yet he watches my social media like a hawk and when we’re together in person he’s happy and comfy with me and we can’t keep our hands off of each other... does he have feelings for me and. he’s scared? Or does he just wanna take things slow?

ps - he also was trying to get into my phone and asking me if I still speak to my exboyfriend

Into me but wants to take things slow

Developing feelings and is scared

All of the above

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He’s into me and keeps playing with my hair anytime we are together in person and is very affectionate, yet he either says he’s busy or doesn’t respond at times... yet he watches me closely on social media... is he scared of his feelings or does he wanna take things slow? Or is he not into me?

[Anonymous]

I think he's scared and doesn't want to commit. And its been a year, so its beyond taking things slow. He's developed feelings for you, but you need to let him know that he can't expect you to hang around forever, waiting for him.

[Asker]

We were hanging out as friends a few times the summer before but this last month he confessed his feelings for me and started getting affectionate towards me

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s good right?

[Asker]

Yes its amazing... he’s a nice guy overall

[Asker]

Does it sound like he wants to take things slow?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it does.

[Asker]

This last month we saw each other twice but he always seems to be busy and doesn’t like to plan too far ahead. But when we’re togeywhr in person he can’t keep his hands off me... is this his way of taking things slowly with me?

[Anonymous]

I think you should just take things slow for your sake. He sounds wishy washy to me.

[Asker]

What does wish washy mean?
And he also said he wants to take things slow but why is he not responsive at times?

[Opinion Owner]

Wishy washy meaning back and forth. He’s probably socializing at his leisure. He may not want to seem eager.

[Asker]

He doesn’t wanna seem eager? How come?

[Opinion Owner]

Some people don’t want to come off as liking someone too much or needing to talk to them because they feel it may make them look weak somehow. Then there are occasions when that someone is talking to someone else, trying to sort out there feelings or just filling time. Time will tell his intentions just be careful because there are bad guys. But he could be a good guy….