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She is very demanding and she tells me what to do so for example she said oh you shouldn’t be going to the casino it’s not good even though I don’t have a gambling problem at all

She gets very angry when she loses at something and when someone is beating her she gets very very aggressive

She has to have a boyfriend almost all the time. She’s barely single. She even nearly got married and it ended for some strange reason which was “we don’t want to fulfill what others think”

She gets scared over things like someone asking her why she doesn’t want to go somewhere

When she wants someone’s attention she spams them with messages

She gets her feelings hurt when someone says something she does not like

She thinks people ignore her when they have their own life and she gets hurt when they don’t talk to her

She also gets upset when someone goes and talks to another woman

She has this very dark sense of humour and she’s said things which are very inappropriate and it’s scared some people

She says that she wants to feel needed

Do you think she has a mental health problem? Just asking curious

Since I have recently finished uni and turned
21 I've been thinking whether or not I should live somewhat of a degenerate lifestyle or focus fully on my goals and religious beliefs for my early 20s. Uni taught me I can't really balance these things because one usually ends up pulling me in and it's usually being a degenerate; parties, clubs, girls, etc. I find that it's such a waist of time but when I try and avoid it I feel left out since l'm so young, and on top of this l've been feeling guilty for ignoring Christianity. I feel as if I should shut myself off from degeneracy and social media nonsense even though that's what most of my friends are involved in and dedicate my 20s for completely focusing on mostly work, healthy lifestyle, exercise, being alone (not being lonely just talking to people less), etc.

I want a stable financial income and to be self employed within the next 5 years and for me personally i don't see that happening if I don’t quit all my bad habits and go on monk mode for a couple of years. Everyone I know in my life who's very successful has had to sacrifice a lot with minimal balance, such as time, social life and relationships. Is it worth it?