There is one of my classmate. We are talking for... maybe 7 to 8 months. Sometimes he makes me feel like he loves me and sometimes he act like he don't care about me. He act like my boyfriend but he is not. Yesterday, he was asking a gift from me becuz I ignored him in class.
Sometimes he makes me cry... and at night he shows care for me. Yesterday, when I told him that I cried for half an hour becuz of him then he showed that he don't care about me... like saying "Its not my fault" or "Did I do something wrong?" and so on. But at night he woke up for me and made me comfort from his words and sharing his fav playlists at night. And in last when I said him that I'm feeling sleepy then he said that "ok gud nyt... be relaxed and take rest".
One day, I've also went to his house becuz he asked me to come with him. He also spended money on me for some fruit drinks and also we enjoyed a lot.
When I call him baby he always says that don't call me that.
I'm so confuse.
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It sounds like you're in a situation with this classmate that's really confusing and emotionally up and down. It's natural to feel unsure when someone's behavior isn't consistent, and it seems like this person's actions are making you feel both good and hurt at different times.
When you mentioned that he sometimes acts like he cares about you and other times seems distant, that must be quite confusing. And the fact that he asked for a gift after you ignored him in class definitely adds to the mixed signals. It's understandable that these fluctuations in his behavior are making you feel uncertain about where you stand.
It's important to acknowledge your feelings. When you said that he made you cry and then later comforted you, it shows a rollercoaster of emotions. And it's really contradictory when he seems to care at night but didn't seem concerned about making you cry during the day. That must be quite confusing and emotionally exhausting.
The situation becomes even more complex when you've spent time together, like going to his house and enjoying activities. It's natural to wonder about the true nature of your relationship, especially when you try to express your feelings and call him "baby," but he responds by telling you not to call him that.
Given all this, it might be worth considering how this relationship is affecting you overall. Healthy relationships should make you feel valued, respected, and emotionally supported. If the emotional ups and downs are causing more distress than happiness, it's important to prioritize your own well-being.
Remember, your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel consistently valued and cared for. If you're finding it difficult to navigate these emotions on your own, reaching out to a friend or a counselor could provide additional insight and support. Or even consider ending the relationship with this person.