While not impossible, it's very rare. Usually it was a situationship in the first place because the other person didn't want a relationship, and in nearly all cases, that doesn't change.
Women routinely work against their own best interests by getting with guys who they know don't want a relationship when she clearly does. And they do this because they want guys who are more attractive and who are more tolerant of the woman's lower moral standards, plus it teaches these guys that they don't need to make any commitment or have any responsibility and can still get laid.
Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships. As the gatekeeper of sex, it is your responsibility to choose only "relationship men" (guys who are already looking for a serious relationship) if you expect to have any chance of having a serious relationship. No one will stop you from choosing the hot guys, but we all know those guys won't be committing to anyone, so if you pick those guys and develop feelings, you WILL get hurt and it's your own fault. You are never going to convert a "casual sex" guy into a relationship guy.
The chances of it actually working out is very slim chance , sadly to say , mainly because of the resentments you have for each other , just because you both think you cleared the air , that means nothing , that’s just a temporary band aid that will eventually fall off and go back to the way things were before , it’s your life and your choice , so I can’t tell you what to do , I am just giving advice based off of my own personal experiences, once and ex always an ex , people that truly care and value each other don’t walk away from each other period.
The fact that you say it’s mainly your fault things ended and not because he was bs-ing makes me feel like there’s potential. If you give him another shot, just do your best to assure you’re both in the right frame of mind beforehand. I’d also say to mentally prepare for if it doesn’t work. Sometimes even if all the right cards are in place things still fall apart.
It's possible. As with all relationships, it takes two, so if the two of you are in agreement that it's more than what it was, then it can proceed to the next level, but one should not get too invested in trying to make it into something it's not or won't ever be if the other party seems totally disinterested.
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Sure it's possible but highly unlikely. Once you sit down and figure out that you're both not compatible or want the same things you all just go back to having sex. Usually how it works.
Yes if you are comfortable, tell him what you feel
Yes, people get together all the time that way.
What's a situationship? There's no such word.
Probably not from “rekindled” romances. There were deeper reasons you broke up.
There's always the possibility of it.
It can happen but it's rare.
I don't know should you?
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