Why do I always fall in love with the guys who ignore me even though they're not so handsome compared to guys who actually are handsome and chase me?

[Anonymous]

Not only me but most of the girls fall in love with guys who treat them poor, doesn't show them any love, avoid their feelings, feel stuck with toxic guys but can't move on to a better guy. Why do we need validation from guys who aren't even valid on our level?

[Chill_Thoughts]

Usually because those kinds of guys are quite manipulative, while attractive confident guys aren't. People act like girls are hard to figure out, but you're really not and guys will act exactly how they have to in order to make you fall for them, but it ain't real and that's why after a bit they get bored of you. Just don't chase a guy to be happy and you'll find someone worth it. If you're happy with yourself and don't need anyone else, that's the best time to where you'll realise that a friend you have or have made recently, maybe should be more than just a friend

[ProbablyClueless]

Because you want the sweet taste of victory. You want to feel like you won the person's affection by showing them that you're worthy.

Sad to say it, but this is the heartbreaking product of unmet childhood needs.

[Asker]

Exactly

[BasedBaeBecca]

Many girls like "bad guys" because they are more interesting and dangerous (and usually more charming). They don't want a "boring" boyfriend.

So to answer your question, girls like validation from guys who are on the lower level because these guys are more "dangerous" and "sexy". They make girls feel "alive".

[Anonymous]

Because you believe if someone likes you there is something wrong with them or they are playing you because you dont think you deserve love.

Love yourself.

❤️

[RHK36]

Because you're stubborn and think you can fix them. Stop chasing broken people and focus on yourself. Being your best version will attract better quality men, just gotta be honest and pay attention to the red flags.

[Truthatanycost]

Perhaps we not only attract what we are... but also are attracted to what we are.

[Anonymous]

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