Dating a cold guy?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy who I fell in love with he personally asked me out his self he gives me everything I need or want but then I’ve not met him before In person but I love him so so much this guy whenever I tell him I love him love him his always so uncomfortable with it but Remember he asked me out if he didn’t want me to fall in love why bring me into this? When I try to confess my love to him from my heart he said I talk to much that I shouldn’t keep doing this love of a thing and fall into depression that my love was toxic this guy I haven’t met before as I said why on earth did I fall in love and is it a crime to fall in love and this guy doesn’t text me if I don’t he calls only when I beg for it the last time he told me he had financial issues I prayed for him from my whole heart whenever his traveling and I tell to let me know when he arrives his destination he snub’s me whenever I pray and tell him he says pray for yourself first , and this time after he spoke about his financial crisis I was bothered as his partner I was worried this guy told me off when I try to share common things partners do together he doesn’t care or give a fuck whenever I tell him I would not reach out he would be like Ok no problem, as I said this guy gives me everything but not love and affection whenever I tell him I need love from him he tells me his not a preacher of love guys I need honest advice I can’t really write all experience so far with him on here cause it’s so long advice me honest advise please. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

[Guy13]

What you are describing as cold is often described as callous, traumatized. or a seared conscience. This does not mean that they do not feel in an odd way or are not smooth.

Many of these people are attention seeking and can not know emotion. They cry or laugh when they see others cry or laugh. Their sense of attention is or seems often miscalculated or odd timing.-Your guy falls under this category more as anything he does not feel stresses him out. It does not mean that he can not mirror it from watching you and others, however, feeling it and knowing compassion for others is a stretch.

And, it can take the form of negative attention (hurting others) as well as being complemented. They can feel it though when they are "attacked" or :complemented". These are Narcissistic in their Nature. Some are also psychopaths or sociopaths. They are fully devoid of identifying with others pain, compassion, love, and/or sorrow.

[Hydrogen]

Nope, you should avoid him. I'm telling you this as a cold guy myself, we don't feel love, we don't know what to do with it or how to behave around it. Hearing love you stresses us out and we can't say it back even if it was a life or death situation. This is a childhood lack of love mixed with bad relationships.. or.. he is just a sociopath 😄 both are red flags anyway

[Anonymous]

How can you possibly love someone who you have never met in person? Sorry that's crazy