What you are describing as cold is often described as callous, traumatized. or a seared conscience. This does not mean that they do not feel in an odd way or are not smooth.
Many of these people are attention seeking and can not know emotion. They cry or laugh when they see others cry or laugh. Their sense of attention is or seems often miscalculated or odd timing.-Your guy falls under this category more as anything he does not feel stresses him out. It does not mean that he can not mirror it from watching you and others, however, feeling it and knowing compassion for others is a stretch.
And, it can take the form of negative attention (hurting others) as well as being complemented. They can feel it though when they are "attacked" or :complemented". These are Narcissistic in their Nature. Some are also psychopaths or sociopaths. They are fully devoid of identifying with others pain, compassion, love, and/or sorrow.
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Nope, you should avoid him. I'm telling you this as a cold guy myself, we don't feel love, we don't know what to do with it or how to behave around it. Hearing love you stresses us out and we can't say it back even if it was a life or death situation. This is a childhood lack of love mixed with bad relationships.. or.. he is just a sociopath 😄 both are red flags anyway
How can you possibly love someone who you have never met in person? Sorry that's crazy
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