We used to talk since 2020 September and had a record of talking literally every single day since then which broke a month ago when she broke it herself however it's because she was busy (and also came into the relationship with her boyfriend) but i didn't mind that.
Then she also started ignoring my stories, messages even though she and her boyfriend are both online together, I told her that I am feeling REALLY REALLY HURT because of what she's doing, but she didn't really care, she goes away whenever she wants and instead gets irritated over me while I cry for her to talk to me sometimes but she messages me after weeks (or even more) now, she herself also told me I am showing you formality, so I asked her do you wanna leave me? She still didn't give clear reply to it like a yes or no and I literally had sleepless night one day because of her, I told her way before she came to her relationship that promise me, would you consider me as the equal or just slightly less priority of your life partner if you ever come to your relationship? She promised she will but now she and her boyfriend both calls me toxic for how much I care about her, she tells me I am very immature, she also lies to me and hide that she came online to talk to her boyfriend.
I thought she's different and a high commitment girl but now I am feeling really suicidal because of her and my productivity has decrease significantly, who's wrong here? ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING.
Guys and Girls are both welcome to share their opinions here! I just need help 😞, the more opinions I get, the more helpful it'll be 🙏
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Kick your self in the ass for allowing yourself to be her floor mat.
Respectfully, What do you mean? Do you think I shouldn't have begged and cried for her to stay? And who's fault is here? 😔
Hello sir Mr. Dave, you seem to be a sweet man and also quite famous here, may I DM you? I don't have much to talk, just need some advice 😔
Yeah, I don't do DM. Tried it once and honestly it was a bad idea... a sorry ass catfish attempt. No reason to DM me, you are anonymous, and everyone knows I am that guy that just tells it straight.
Popular on GaG... wow all my life aspirations have just been fulfilled! ;)
There is nothing to DM about my man, you answered your own question in the initial question... look I am a tell it how it is tough love type of man.
You said; "What should I (her bff) do if she gives me no value and don't care about my feelings..."
So once a girl starts dating someone, you're not really her BFF. You are just a freind, because that boyfriend will rightfully get all the attention, she feels he deserves before any other guy.
She gives you no value and doesn't care... so what the fuck are you giving her so much value? She doesn't deserve it or want it. She can't be texting you all the time and still keeping up with her boyfriend. Dude, you fell into the FriendZone Trapp... and now you want me to tell you how to get out of it. You cut contact and move on brother... thats how you get out of it. You find someonelse.
There is nothing to get back form with her... you were just a freind and now you're a needy freind she is saying she isn't got time for. Move on brother, before this becomes even more unhealthy of a situation for you. Sounds like you were nice guy, that she chatted with, but now you are topping 100 on the creep-o-meter.
Time to move on.
You do not deserve to be treated like that.
Just leave the friendship and find a new friend
It's really HARD, I have her baby photos, it always melts my heart, her memories always melt my heart 😞, who's wrong here by the way? And how do I overcome it?
Anything that reminds me of her, hurts me
Clearly her boyfriend doesn't want you two talking
Absolutely that's what I think! I think she was normal but her boyfriend was jealous so he's trying to create barriers between us, don't you think so?
Yes! If you want to get close to her you need to talk to her boyfriend. Maybe invite them both over