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QUESTION IS can I trust him and should I give him a second chance? I love him but I feel betrayed.

Entire story (if you care to read):

July
1. He broke up with me.
2. I asked him if he liked someone else and he said NO. Turns out all that time he was dating and having sex with another woman.
3. He was still texting me every day. I miss you 😘🤗😔 but also that it's better not to be together, we are far away, he wants to see me every day, I'm moody and he doesn't know how to make me happy.

August
4. I decided to be strong. I started ignoring him. He was still texting me "😔 ok I'll delete your number" "if you found someone there, just say it!!!" then sending me photos of us.
5. After having sex with one man, I was feeling so bad, I got drunk, cryed and called him. I told him I love you, I miss you and he said "I love you too kitten"
6. I told him I had sex with someone else and
I asked him if he was seeing someone and he said YES. He was seeing one girl for a month and he had sex with her but "I didn't tell you because it didn't mean anything, I want only you, I love you but I don't want a relationship where we are together so rarely".

September
7. He visited me. We clicked immediately like we've never been apart. But the next day I was thinking about what he did. I said maybe you didn't cheat on me but you lied to me, for one month you were keeping me around with cheesy messages while fucking someone else. "I wasn't keeping you around. I only wanted you, I was all the time thinking about you. I'm a bit closed. I am telling you now after you opened up to me. Do you think I'd travel 20 hours to see you if I didn't care?"
8. He sent our selfie to his mom and she said "You made me cry. Your eyes are shining. I knew something good is going on"

He wanted to hold my hand in public, meet my friends and family, but I didn't let him do any of that. He says why are you hiding me. He gave me his credit card and is planning a trip for my birthday.

I mean you hear more frequent stories of women beating up their boyfriend or assualting a man in public these days than you would have 20 years ago.

Example. Emma Roberts, an American actress and singer, was arrested for a domestic violence incident in Canada, after allegedly bloodying her boyfriend, Evan Peters, after what later was described to be started by a stupid argument regarding money. When the police arrived, they observed Evan with a bloody nose. Emma was immediately arrested. One law enforcement source said that Evan also had a bite mark. Ouch! They eventually got married 6 months later

Example- Kelly Brook, an English model and actress, admitted to punching her ex-boyfriends Jason Statham and Danny Cipriani. Supposedly, she hit Cipriani after he gave his number to a lapdancer, and Statham after he embarrassed her at the wedding of Madonna and Guy Ritchie. In either case, keep your hands to yourself!

Example - Jennifer Freeman, an American model and actress, was arrested on August 10th for attacking her then ex-husband Earl Watson. Watson, 31, reportedly became suspicious after Freeman received a text message around 11 p. m. When he took her phone to check the message, an irate Freeman allegedly reacted by hitting him "forcefully twice in the face with her right open hand". Freeman, 24, then allegedly grabbed Watson's right wrist and bit down, "breaking the skin, leaving teeth marks and drawing blood". The actress then let go of his wrist and purportedly proceeded to bite down on his chest. Her second alleged attack also drew blood from the NBA veteran. Freeman then tried to attack Watson with an iron. However, he was able to knock the object out of her hand before she caused any more harm.