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Since I have recently finished uni and turned
21 I've been thinking whether or not I should live somewhat of a degenerate lifestyle or focus fully on my goals and religious beliefs for my early 20s. Uni taught me I can't really balance these things because one usually ends up pulling me in and it's usually being a degenerate; parties, clubs, girls, etc. I find that it's such a waist of time but when I try and avoid it I feel left out since l'm so young, and on top of this l've been feeling guilty for ignoring Christianity. I feel as if I should shut myself off from degeneracy and social media nonsense even though that's what most of my friends are involved in and dedicate my 20s for completely focusing on mostly work, healthy lifestyle, exercise, being alone (not being lonely just talking to people less), etc.

I want a stable financial income and to be self employed within the next 5 years and for me personally i don't see that happening if I don’t quit all my bad habits and go on monk mode for a couple of years. Everyone I know in my life who's very successful has had to sacrifice a lot with minimal balance, such as time, social life and relationships. Is it worth it?

What do you think in your head, if a guy who dosnt work out approach you?

I have been seeing this woman for a while and today she said something which confuses me. She said to me “when you don’t watch my Instagram story or look at my stuff… I start to ask questions”. What does she mean by starting to ask questions? I’m busy I have things to do and I can’t sit around watching her content all the time so sometimes I miss the content but what’s with the phrase “I start to ask questions”. Please let me know.

another time I did not reply to texts and she was like “oh really you wanna (beep) ignore me”

one time we had a argument and I said forget it and turned my phone off. I turned it on later and she sent me a voicemail saying “oh forget it then? You hurt me so bad”

I meant forget it as in don’t worry about it. She was very upset and I tried to calm it down by writing that and turning the phone off

I can’t ask her this because I told her once before that we are fine and then she said “oh what? You think I’m crazy do you? l” and there was an argument. Thank you