Is It a Red Flag that he Follows Accounts of Girls Involved in Questionable Activities on IG?

[Anonymous]

We've been chatting with each other for around 8 months already and video chatted once. It's long distance so we haven't met up irl yet.

He says stuff like: "I love u", "ur my baby", etc... And clearly expressed a will of pursuing a relationship with me in the future.

And I've never checked the people he follows on IG b4 but when I did today, I just realised he follows a lot of women that publish "suspicious" posts while wearing slinky and revealing clothes to almost no clothes at all.

It's kind of a turn off and honestly, disappointing.

I'm thinking of might telling him it's better we just keep it friendly and genuine and don't try to pursue anything more than friendship.

I don't know if that's common guy behaviour or not tbh but it simply doesn't align with my personality nor character.

What would you do if u were in my place? (sry for the essay, by the way)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Looking at half naked/naked women online is something pretty much all guys do, guys who don't do that are either not internet users, sufferers of ED, super religious, or gay.

However, if he tries persuing any of them, rather than just seeing them as internet porn, thats a red flag. There is a big difference between looking at porn and cheating.

[madhatters4]

depends if he just looks or if he also engages. just looking seems fine. it's not much different than seeing attractive women on tv, movies, mags, porn, etc, etc, etc

if he is engaging them in something then you may have more to worry about

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[Asker]

Np :3