So, I've never rlly been in a relationship and I've been chatting to this guy that I met online for some time already (I've never seen him irl tho!) but then realised that he follows lots of "suspicious" accounts and some might even be OF accounts of women on IG.
I'm not sure if that's a normal guy behaviour or not but it seemed pretty weird to me and now I'm second guessing, so what do you think? Is it a red flag?
Worst is that I don't even know how to bring this up to him.
It depends. Are theses old accounts that he has been following or new accounts that he's just started following. I have old accounts that I followed in the past that I have totally forgotten about until they pop up on any of my feeds. They sometimes surprise me when I see them. Since I'm involved with someone, depending on the content of the person I'm following I may unfollow so I don't end up in situations like this. I'm into fitness so some of the ladies I follow do post sexy photos, but their main content is training and nutrition. I continue to follow them. I do have thrist trap chick's I follow whenever they pop up I just unfollow them. I don't see anything wrong with asking him about the people he follows.
It's not uncommon for people to follow a variety of accounts on social media, including those that may feature semi-nude or explicit content. However, whether it's a red flag or not depends on your personal boundaries and the dynamics of your relationship. If you're uncomfortable with it, it's important to communicate your feelings and concerns to him. Honesty and open communication are key in any relationship. You can bring it up by expressing your feelings and asking for his perspective, which can help you both understand each other better.
Up to you for me personally yeah it’s a red flag
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it is quite common it is also a red flag and a sign for you to not date said person.
I would see it as a res flag, that's some 16 y/o activity
I hate these anonymous girls on here who go around asking, Is this a red flag? Is that a red flag? Nothing is a red flag, just decide whether you like a guy or not.
Would you rather he follow naked dudes?
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