My boyfriend follows nude and sexual accounts on Twitter and Tik Tok. Is it a red flag?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I had a little break up but now we started to talking again. He's generally nice to me. After break up he became nicer. But I noticed that he followed a lot nude accounts on Twitter/Tik Tok lately. His accounts have zero follower and he using these accounts just for following nudes. I don't know why he needed this. We have great sex life and I send him nudes too. It makes me sad that he's satisfiying himself by looking at other girls. Also it shocked me because normally he wouldn't follow these thing and he generally has high libido but he isn't a sex addict. He is stili having sex with me and want me to send nudes. He said he likes me so much. So why he needed this? He's working a full time job and we can't have sex in these days. Is this a active? Is this a red flag? Everything is good expect this. What should I do?

[Sandy_C]

I see many women go through this, and I can never really understand why men do this honestly. I’m gonna read the replies to your question and hopefully I myself can understand it all.


(But I’ve heard that men are just simply curious, and like what they see but won’t pursue if they’re in a healthy relationship)

[thegirlfromthething]

I wouldn’t get concerned unless he interacts with the girls or masturbating to the accounts replaces sex with you. For now it sounds like he’s just watching porn though.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, we're visual and just like to look. Doesn't necessarily "mean" anything. And he may not "satisfy" himself to them either (unless you know he does?). I'd suggest just talking with him about it if it bothers you. He might just say it's no big deal and delete them? I would if it was me.

[Asker]

So he is generally nice to me. He is free to follow whoever he wants. İts not a big deal. But i'm still jealous a bit. But thats Okay. I won't ask him this because i don't want to argue with him again and i don't him to realise i stalk his secret accounts. İ keep stalking.

[chriscdi]

well its def not something in a healthy relationship but 🤷🏽‍♂️

[postempestas]

Guess you aren't enough for him. Maybe not attractive enough or he's a dick.

[Asker]

I feel that he's enjoying have sex with me. And. I have good body and average face. He said that he likes me. It happen for the first me. He's so horny in these days and i dont understand why. We can't have sex because of his job. Maybe the reason is this. But im not sure.

[postempestas]

Whats his job?

[Asker]

Chef

[postempestas]

Nah, he can come home and fuck you. Something is happening. Dont be coward and ask.

[realb1chh]

why are y'all seeing them watch porn and decide to stay … i’m trying to see if he is watching that shit so i can fucking leave

[Anonymous]

He has TikTok, only paedos have TikTok after 18

[Asker]

What does mean paedos? You mean pedophile? No he's not a pedophile. He follows mature womans. Also he hates child abuse

[Opinion Owner]

TikTok is for kids and paedos, he isn't a kid so that leaves one outcome

[Asker]

There are a lot of women who share erotic videos on Tiktok.

[realb1chh]

yeah, that he likes to watch tiktok.. tiktok is not only for kids kids hardly use tiktok more teen use tiktok. i’m 18 f and i still use tiktok

[Opinion Owner]

Anyone under 18 is a kid
I've never used communist blackmail/kill list propaganda sites like TikTok and Temu