Should I be worried about my boyfriend liking nude photos of girls through his priv twitter?

[Hgreb]

Ok so he always says that he wouldn't cheat on me, but several times he's done something stupid. The first time I know of was he asked a girl on tinder to send him nudes "as a joke" and then proceeded to add her on snapchat so i dont know what went on from there (he used to let me go on his tinder), the second time I know of was of a girl that he used to be friends with during his previous relationship and when that ended they got quite close. Then he met me and stopped speaking to her for about a year, but he messaged her how he missed their conversations and she'd deleted their conversations so asked what they used to talk about and then he sent her screenshots of them sharing flirty messages and nudes she had sent him, and then he said he was glad he got them (the nudes) she didn't respond to that. The third time I know of was the private twotter acc one that i do follow, but obviously i dont follow all the people he follows. There is a girl that we both follow (extremely pretty) and he likes her photos when she takes provocative photos which puts me down obviously. But then recently my friend who is also his friend asked if i knew he was liking photos of a girl in her underwear on his priv (i dont follow her so i couldnt see) so i had a quick snoop to see for myself on his phone and it turned out true. So now i dont know what to do. He doesn't like me being on his phone without him being there, and always says it's disrespectful to our relationship, and i admit to that but i just can't trust him. He knows how i feel about all of this stuff and liking selfies of pretty girls that he barely knows. He tells me when he thinks a girls photo is attractive and girls in public and it makes me feel so shit and he knows this. One time i unliked a popular girls instagram photo (she looks like cara delevigne and he's into that) and then he re-liked it when i gave him his phone back. If i ask him to not like certain girls photos he'll just ignore me and do it anyway.

[Rocket_Queen]

So I breezed through this... are you in an open relationship? Are these things you guys have previously discussed as being okay? Because none of that is normal for a average relationship and in my opinion is extremely disrespectful.

[Hgreb]

no we're not and no it hasn't and he knows how uncomfortable it makes me when he tells me how attractive a girl we see in town is.

[Purpshuk]

He's a shitty guy and he doesn't deserve a girlfriend if he's gonna be doing that, it's him being the disrespectful one

[ProbablyTooMature]

So... why are you with him? He's screwed up previously, and more importantly YOU DON'T TRUST HIM.

[Hgreb]

I've screwed up once too tbf but i learned from my mistake. We've been together for just over a year and its my longest relationship to date so I don't know how they work and I don't know how to bring it up to him without him getting angry about me being on his phone without him knowing. And obviously im worried about losing him bc all my friends i know are from him (other than one but we only got close when i got w him) and i just think he'll go n find a girl thats prettier n more confident n stuff and then i'll be the chubby boring ex.

[ProbablyTooMature]

"If i ask him to not like certain girls photos he'll just ignore me and do it anyway."
"and he likes her photos when she takes provocative photos which puts me down obviously"
Okay well, that's on you. He's not doing anything inappropriate by liking a photo. That's your insecurity coming into play. It's not putting you down, you're wrong there. Though I personally wouldn't be following girls who are slutty enough to put photos of themselves in their underwear on the internet, but whatever.

You SHOULDN'T be on his phone when he's not around. That's bullshit and sneaky. However, he should also be okay with showing you his phone if you ask.

The problems are these:
Neither of you communicate well
You don't trust him
Your insecurities are getting the best of you
He sends inappropriate messages to girls

[Hgreb]

I brought it up to him and he yelled at me a fuck tonne saying he's a good boyfriend to me n stuff I don't know we've sorted it but he knows im only giving him one last chance. Just to be clear he was there when i was on his phone last night but i jst had to check bc i dont like taking other peoples word on stuff like this. The girl actually requested to follow my priv acc and then i showed him the nude and asked wtf he was thinking n he started laughing ://

[ProbablyTooMature]

So wait... he yelled at you a fuck ton, and he thinks he's a good boyfriend? Quality.

[QuietRunner]

yes be worried. He is looking for girls to masturbate to and possible date next

[gobsmacked3]

seems needless when he can enjoy your naked body