Should I be worried that my boyfriend has half naked pictures of girls that he downloaded from the Internet on his phone?

[Youthinkyouknow92]

So I found out my boyfriends password to his phone without him knowing and I went through it when he was sleeping. I went in his photos and found half naked pictures of girls in his phone that looked like they were downloaded from the Internet. Should I be worried about this. I can't tell him it makes
Me uncomfortable because he'll get mad that I looked in his phone with out him knowing. I need answers

[ScruffyNerfHerder]

Hmm, well it sounds like both of you have reasons to break up with the other.

Almost all men have seen p*rn. Mature guys grow out of it because we learn how damaging it is, to ourselves, to our relationships. Clearly he isn't there yet. But it wasn't pictures of young children and animals, or gay for that matter, so at least you know he's a normal straight guy. But in any case, he's clearly immature and has poor judgment--do you think it affects the way he treats you? That should be the question you're asking. If you think it does do so, and negatively, then you might have a reason to be concerned.

As for the phone thing--you know you shouldn't have done that and why, not going to lecture you about it, I'm not here to criticize or judge you. Maybe some guys are more forgiving on that, but he would be rightfully angry with you. For me, as a general rule of mine, it would be cause for an immediate breakup, no questions asked. Take that for what it's worth.

Not going to tell you what to do, just think through what I wrote, reflect on a bit and think for what seems right/important to you personally. Hope that helps.

[Youthinkyouknow92]

He treats me good. Shows a lot of love and affection. I thought it was because I wasn't pretty enough for him and he said he wouldn't change a thing about me

[piratadelamor]

There might be a possibility that you might not be completing his sexual desires. If these half naked pics were more of the standard models he might be fantasizing about you in the same poses. Go ahead and surprise him wit one of the poses you find best and see what happens.

[Florida_Gator_Girl]

Well I have done the same thing over and over again. No its not right to go snooping but when you haven't had sex in month and month and month I had to look through his stuff.
I have found pron he has downloaded and seen the pictures as well.
Yes I totally understand that having your bf/fiance/husband looking at other women make you uncomfortable. Confront him about it. I have many times. I think they get bored with having the same naked female around and need to jerk off to a different naked girl or something like that.
Honestly I think its shit that guys do this to us. There really isn't anything you or I can do about it especially if you have a long term relationship. Mine is going 6 years now. He still chooses p*rn and doesn't even try to have sex anymore. So I just stopped acting like I cared about the sex. Its not the best advice but its what I got.

[Pandacutie21]

Just be honest with him. Confront him because you will always wonder. Just talk to him and admit what you did. Might cause some arguments or not, so just be ready of what the outcome will be.

[Mgoods]

I woudn't care about the pictures, I would just be concerned about why he felt the need to hide that stuff from me. You shot yourself in the leg though, looking through his phone...

[Anonymous]

Great girls he's got there, snooping through his phone. If I found out a girl was doing that, no matter what I had on my phone, it would be immediate grounds for dismissal. It's an invasion of privacy, regardless of what's on the phone, it's not cool and is probably illegal at that

[wolves]

not really mate i mean i let girls go throught my phone beacuse i have nothing to hide or anything my now ex girl knew my password cus i told her and said she can look through it all she wants

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah YOUR Ex. Your EX. I'm just saying, it's an invasion of privacy, no matter what's on your phone. You can't just let your woman run your life, that's why you're broken up

[Opinion Owner]

Grow some dude

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, if he got other girls pictures on his phone and their half naked you
have every right to be mad/ upset. I don't know how guys can do that stuff to
their girlfriends it makes no sense to me.

[wolves]

i dont think you should be worried i mean some boys have photots on there phone it doesn't mean anything per say.

[Scorpio909]

So you broke into this phone, snooped around, and found p*rn? Yeah I hope you get dumped. You have no right to go through his phone.

[AliceDetest]

Nope, because he could have hardcore P*rnography on it. But he doesn't.

[Scarecrow13]

You shouldn't have gone through his phone without his permission, that is the real issue here.