Is this a red flag?

[Anonymous]

So the guy I’m crushing on follows 11 ig model type accounts between his Instagram and his Tik tok. He doesn’t like any of the pictures and isn’t very active on Instagram. But I’m wondering if I should be worried this means he has unrealistic standards or is prone to cheat? Any guys followed a similar number of these accounts and were pretty faithful? Is it possible following these type of people doesn’t mean they think of them too much?

[SueShe]

To me, that would definitely be a warning sign and a red flag.

A guy that follows tons of girls on social media is very unstable and fantasizes about those girls. Why would one follow females if not to fantasize or to hope to have a glimpse of breasts, butt or nudity.

That would be the behavior of a frustrated man that is introverted and that needs to compensate his introversion by fantasizing on those cheap models because he does not have the courage to put in practice what is going on in his mind.

I would be cautious about anyone that behaves that way because they don't give me the feeling of being trustworthy.

[Asker]

I guess I’m not sure what to think since they guys say they don’t fantasize about them? Is 11 a lot? Most of them aren’t that explicit. I’d say maybe one is

[Birdlegs]

I follow a ton of Instagram models i don’t like fantasize about them or anything they just have nice butts

[Asker]

Awesome!! Good to know!

[IncognitoBandito]

Sometimes guys just foloow cute girls out of boredom

[Asker]

Do you guys spend much time thinking or fantasizing about them? Like more than women you know in real life? Or is it like a passing “oh she’s hot” and you move on with your day?

[Birdlegs]

“Oh she’s hot” and keep scrolling

[In_Trance]

Why would this be a red flag?

[Asker]

Just not sure if it meant a guy was hypersexualized to the point they’d get tired of just one person. I know it may not mean that. I just want to confirm

[In_Trance]

You have nothing to worry about