Is it a red flag that a guy I'm talking to looked through my Twitter likes or is that normal?

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we follow each other on twitter, recently I’ve noticed he’s looked at my twt likes from his account. I’ve looked at his too because im curious as to what he’s into. Is it a red flag that he’s going to be controlling or is he doing it for the same reasons i am

ShesRad80 · Accepted Answer

in all seriousness, people need to stop with all this red flag bs. you looked at his too- is it a red flag you will be controlling? kinda silly huh?

very simple, he did it for the same reason you did -curiosity. when you like someone you are typically curious, nosey.

ask yourself --why did i look through his? that answer is the same reason he looked through yours.

no red flag, no controlling no anything here he did it for the same reason you did

strawberrybaby3 · Accepted Answer

lol so it’s a red flag that he does it but not a red flag that you do it? I’ve done that years ago when I use to have twitter and it was to see if he’s constantly liking other women’s photos or not, because to me that is a deal breaker. I also just want to see if I can get to know him a bit better by the things he’s liking.

tzdc21 · Accepted Answer

Uh no it's not a red flag. Clearly you don't think it's a red flag towards you since you did it to him, number one. Number two, he's doing what he should be doing. If you're seeing someone and considering a long term relationship with them, you have to know all you can about them so that you can know what you're dealing with. If anything if he's NOT doing that then I would consider that to be a red flag.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If he sneezes? Red flag. If he ties his shoelaces double knot? Red flag. If he uses cayenne pepper in his soup? Red flag. If he likes rabbits? Red flag. If he watches Van Damme movies? Red flag. And if he doesn't have an OnlyFans? He's a weirdo. BE AFRIAD. EVERY STEP YOU TAKE. He's probably the cousin of that psycho trucker in the movie, yelling "Caaanddyy Caaaane! Whheerre's my candy caaane?👹👹👹"

Adaeva · Answer

Do you believe it is a red flag if a guy likes you? Because that is all it is. He is not going read tweets of some woman he is not interested in. Guess what? I had a crush on a movie star and I reading everything I could find about him. If he had known, would he think that was red flag, because they are basically the same.

Anonymous · Answer

newsflash honeybunch, a redflag implies you are the dominant one in the relatiomnshjp.
which is unnatural.
omg i think im having an attack of the vapours i better faint in your lap.
and you can reasure me ill be ok as i recover my wits

pianogirlmeow · Answer

i would love if a boy did that. don’t think it’s a red flag, he just wants to know what you like and if you may have some red flags.

Anemone978 · Answer

I don't think it is a red flag.. But if the person is cheating on you and finds this out they think it is a red flag LOL

lorenzomichael · Answer

It's only considered a red flag if you have something that you don't want him to see, or know about you. And if you like this guy. But if you don't care about him like that in that way. Then who cares?

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Worded another way “Is it a red flag that this guy did the same thing I did?”

HippoDino · Answer

No need to assume the worst in people, especially when he's doing the exact same you are.

lildkman1090 · Answer

I would be very careful someone like that seems like they could harbor jealousy and extreme mistrust

Anonymous · Answer

your twitter likes are public... how is that a red flag? literally anyone can look at your likes. how is this controlling behavior? lol you're fine...

madhatters4 · Answer

i think it's just a curiosity. he is seeing what you are into and learning about you

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He is curious, the same as you are of him.

OddBeMe · Answer

It bothers me how easy it is to track each other online. We should allow people to look at us skeptically. That’s life.

04girl · Answer

I don't think it's a red flag unless he starts being weird about it. Like, asking why you're liking certain things or telling you not to follow certain people

serious_miss419 · Answer

He’s looking for an issue so he can start one with you.

Anonymous · Answer

Why would it be a red flag. But to each their own. My Twitter likes tab are just porn videos 🤤

msc545 · Answer

Congratulations! I think you get the hypocrisy award of the year!

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Red flag for him, try not to get into a relationship with him, let him live peacefully

mugexw · Answer

I think he is just curious 'cause I'd do the same think as him

Diortbb · Answer

He just wants you choking on his dick and trying to find how to charm you to get there

Starrrboy · Answer

Pretty normal, he's just curious..

Anonymous · Answer

How did you find that out in the first place?

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Get help.

Morgador · Answer

Kinda creepy

DreamLife7 · Answer

You need therapy

In_Trance · Answer

It's not good

eagle1951 · Answer

same as you

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He is curious, the same as you are of him.

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He is curious, the same as you are of him.

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