What do you think in your head, if a guy who dosnt work out approach you?
None of those answers suit me. However, I think someone needs to take care of their body, just like they take care of their hair, their car, their home.
If a guy is a couch potato, THAT is a turn-off. If he physically looks "sloppy," THAT is a turn-off. A six-pack and giant pecs were never my standard of male beauty. HOWEVER, if a guy has these, I ain't mad!
Men, just like women, are built all kinds of ways. Some are brooms, others chunks. But everybody should take three days a week, at least, to get their heart rates up: bike, walk, do some weight lifting, swimming, tennis... SOMETHING. IF a man is TONED and doesn't wheeze walking up five stairs, can't life a hammer, or his ass off his couch, RED FLAG. Bodes ill for a healthy future and sounds lazy.
Everyone needs to make time to keep their heart and lungs fit and muscles toned. That's just the bottom line. Get out and move.
Jesus, y’all think women are so shallow, like all of these options make it clear you think women put appearance first.
Fun fact: a woman’s preferences for a man’s physical appearance can fluctuate based on whether or not she’s ovulating. As you know, ovulating occurs one week out of a 4 week cycle and during that one week women prefer a more masculine appearance, the upside-down triangle torso, the strong jaw, big hands, etc. The other 3 weeks of the cycle a woman usually prefers men with a more feminine physique. Something softer, skinnier, etc. this is leftover evolutionary traits that come from our days as chimps where women would want to be impregnated by the masculine type, but have the offspring parented by the feminine type.
In short, dad bods = daddy material
I just did a question on this and most said they would not be with an out of shape dude to begin with or that they wouldn't any way or any how be with someone who was not handsome. So, maybe a lotta women ARE shallow? Also remember, men have their "to have" list too.
***Girls, if you had a great guy, though not good looking, would you ever consider dropping him for a stud?***
It's not really a red flag or turn off. I'd probably be a little concerned just health-wise if he doesn't exercise at all (and for me, even just like regularly going on walks counts as exercise so it's really not a high bar), but I don't really care if he's a gym rat or not.
I'm active and have dated inactive people before and those relationships never turned out.
I value doing fun, active things. They're an important part of my life.
A partner who doesn't also value those isn't going to work with me.
Where is the option : I like a guy for the way he is and dont mind if he doesn't work out.
Gee not great options here you know.
Doesn't bother me at all. a lot of muscles gross me out tbh
skinny guys aren't a turn on for me , I prefer muscular guys , i find backs and wide shoulders attractive too
That's just like a regular dude. And it's not everyone you can see if they work out or not.
Not going to the gym is not a red flag. It’s a choice.
None of those are true. I focus mostly on personality.
Men think we care about that nonsense.
Newsflash, most of us don't.
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