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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
Why does it sometimes take getting knock into submission to change?
My younger 32 year-old brother (only a year younger though) got married in 2019, they have faternal twins (boy and girl) and he's a physician with his own clinic too. He made it this far but he wasn't always like this....
Anonymous
(30-35) Don’t have a lot of experience with men and this first one has me confused and sad?
I have a friend and she was studying abroad for a year and while she was gone her older brother began to hit me up to hang out and one thing led to another and I lost my virginity to him. We had sex several times over...
Tryingtobehappy9
Xper 2 Age: 26 Am I unattractive?
You guys, I have no clue what it is, but I get hit on more in person than I do on social media. I'm so bad at posing and doing stuff, so I usually take selfies. And people don't really go crazy over my selfies. I mean, I...
Anonymous
(18-24) My heart took over in the beginning but now logic is setting in and I'm afraid of what might be the consequences of my actions. What do I do?
I've had 2 horrible endings with men I loved at one point. My first love just ghosted me for another girl. The second didn't put any effort into the relationship and I felt like I was fighting for a relationship that only...
Anonymous
(25-29) Exploring his Options Or Just Not Into Me?
I met this guy through a mutual friend and we instantly seemed attracted to each other. He would always hold eye contact with me or try to be around me, or talk to me. He’s always laughing around me and smiling. He would...
Mhmmmalreadykno
Xper 5 Age: 24 What are some ways for introverts to know to if they are generally considered physically attractive?
I know some introverts who are guys say when they do go out, people mostly respond to them, in a positive way, and they know that some people stare at them, but they don't really get hit on, but they think that that might...
Anonymous
(25-29) How often do you think good-looking people get attention, when they go out, compared to the "average" person?
I know some people who don't go out much, but still get a decent amount of attention when they go out (women will whisper when they leave, stare them down, they've been checked out, when they weren't paying attention, at...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a red flag if a guy tells a girl to hit him up? It was said to me the guy was nice & then he totally switched weeks later why?
I thought nothing of it he seemed nice then weeks later like I said not so nice he doesn’t talk to me anymore acting really weird. I don’t get it he pursed me first then screwed me over I don’t get why people do this. If...
laurlaur101
Xper 5 Age: 23 Should I break it off or give it time?
This girl (25) who's long distance away from me, confessed her feelings saying that she has a crush on me and treat her special. We talk everyday, I made blush twice before, and she tells me nearly everything. We flirt,...
Cocochoh
Xper 5 Age: 36 Guys, Why are women blamed for men becoming jerks and only want one thing from them?
So on my last post I said I’m very good looking, fit, curvy and 5’4”. I like good looking guys and I like guys that are 8/10 to 10/10. Anyways I’ve been dumped, cheated on and guys I had decent relationships with I broke...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think aggressive people ever change?
My boyfriend said he used to fight a lot, he broke glass bottle on someones head because he touched his ex, he had baseball bat in his car, he set on fire someones moto, he closed a guys hand in his car and drove with his...
Anonymous
(36-45) My boyfriend has been distant and I don't know what to do?
My boyfriend and I have been long distance for 2 months and we had the biggest fight 2 days back. We really considered breaking up. I told him I can give him a few days to think about it he wants to be with me or not but...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to get out of this situation?
I got myself in to a situation. A guy hit on me at the gym. At first I was excited. Someone different that I normally go for. He has been texting me and yesterday called in the middle of the day. I said I am working and...
Lilphil123
Xper 5 Age: 40 Republicans - Schoolyard bully tactics is the way you settle things and is what and how you were elected to do to "own the libs"?
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/markwayne-mullin-fight-full-intentions_n_6555e6d9e4b0998d699efaa7 GOP Senator Now Says He Had 'Full Intentions' Of Coming To Blows In Hearing Sen. Markwayne Mullin (R-Okla.) said he...
legalboxers
Editor Age: 49 What Are You Thoughts On Men Saying Women Hit The Wall At Age 30?
When will you sexist bitter guys give this BS up? You see women over 30 date and get into relationships all the time. No one cares if you think those men are high value or not. Plus men literally sleep with anyone no...
Aphrodite801
Yoda Age: 25 
Why’s this girl still acting interested in me?
So I had a coworker who I used to like and she clearly liked me back. However I lost pretty much all interest when I found out (from a mutual) that she started talking to another guy as well (probably a month or so after...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should pursue or not?
There is this Asian girl I talk to. You know those ones that does live dance and everyone support them with gifts. She wanted to add me on Instagram and we hit off pretty nice. After awhile of talking shit and flirting....
Kokoroho
Xper 4 Age: 21 Why does my crush pretend to be on his phone when we make eye contact and walk past each other?
I liked this guy that goes to my school and rides my bus for about a year. We never spoke but had close encounters and made so much eye contact before there’s tension. He used to do small things to try to get my attention...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I getting played? why is he switching up?
I been talking to this guy who has been flirting with me for a while sliding up on my story a lot complimenting me and I decided to give him a chance. We went on a date and it was really good, he was consistent after the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, Is it physical attraction or just being friendly / nice?
I been working at this new job for a bit now. One of the guys and I clicked immediately and had inside jokes within the first week. He is a really chatty and funny guy tho. Everyone seems to like him and his a generally...
mrpk02
Xper 4 Age: 28 