I been working at this new job for a bit now. One of the guys and I clicked immediately and had inside jokes within the first week.
He is a really chatty and funny guy tho. Everyone seems to like him and his a generally playful persona. However - we can't walk past each other without eye contact or any form of interaction. And he usually hangs around me a lot even if he doesn't need to. When I wore a dress to work I noticed that his eyes went down to my legs but he didn't noticed I noticed and I smiled to myself. Immediately after he came to talk to me once I was alone. He did that quite a lot, tryna catch me alone. He casually drops really deep conversation or really deep facts about himself. He teases me a lot and has complimented me saying I was beautiful before. But we do it in such a natural way it doesn't feel like flirting at all even if it is.
We banter a lot and have a go at each other a lot. We keep insulting each other. Mirror each other a lot in gestures and facial expressions too. But what really stuck out to me today was that I was teasing him and playfully insulting him that he put me in a playful chokehold and told me how I can be this cheeky for being so short. That's the first every physical I got off of him ( except him throwing stuff at me and putting random stuff on my head to get my attention)
And he also started making me trip but making sure I don't fall as a joke today too and my only natural response was to hit him and he laughed a lot at that taking the piss out of me. I am very confused. We are very flirty I would say but again it doesn't seem like seriousness. It's all fun and playful and we even started playfully calling each other 'Madame / Sir, Pretty Lady / Pretty Boy or Hunny'.
This has been only a week so far or two and I feel so comfortable around him like I have known him and been friends with him for years. He seems to get cheekier since I playfully hit him..
So what is going on.. is he flirting or tryna be my friend?
What Guys Said
Since you work in the same setting, he may not be showing the full extent of what he thinks of you. Try to get him to spend time with you outside of work.
He likes you and is taking things slowly. Would you have preferred him to ask you to give him a blow job?
No but to maybe say he likes me and not playing about bc I fo that with lots of male friends and have no feelings for them not interest ðŸ˜
He likes you