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Lesbian women have a much more smaller and specialized pool to select from vs guys. I get that. But they also are not as threatening and virtually have no risk of the “creep” factor when approaching other women.

Good looking guys do get a lot more leeway to approach women when all else is equal. But even they have to be cautious of the “creep element”. These problems include:

- The girl they approach might just be in a bad mood.

- She might already be taken by a very possessive boyfriend (unbeknownst to the guy). A lesbian doesn’t have to worry about a violent backlash from a possessive boyfriend/husband unless she is over the top aggressive. Even then she well be dealt with more softly vs another man

- She might be one of the few women who doesn’t find him attractive (while most others do)

- He might inadvertently say or do something off putting when he was trying to come off as confident and funny.

- A lesbian can be more touchy/feely with other woman and has much less risk of having the other person get upset or worse

Overall woman are much less threatening to other women no matter their intentions

However a lesbian/bi girl does have another big challenge of knowing the other girl likes girls or not. Worst case scenario it’s just awkward if the other girl is 100% hetero. But not a big deal.

Examples:

Hot guy: 6'2 210 lbs. Masculine face and deep voice. He is very traditionally masculine and seductive. He never shows his emotions and is very serious in his daily life. But can be flirtatious and playful when out on a date. He is into sports, cars, boating and having sex. He keeps a rotation of women around to expand his options. But he is financially wealthy, and can provide you with a secure and exciting life. Has a broad social network. If he chooses to commit to you , he will make a loving and committed father and husband.

Cute guy: (the boy nextdoor type)

5'8 185 lbs. Cute, soft facial features. Brown eyes and long dark brown hair. Goofy and playful, kind and open with his emotions. he's not rich but takes pride in doing good work. Passionate and attentive lover. Animal lover. He loves cooking and baking for other people. He also enjoys an active lifestyle of horseback riding, hiking, biking and swimming. He loves coffee shops and video games.

I know who I am as a person. I want to be the best dad ever. I am loyal, caring, loving, and I have been the person to never give up. I am passionate. I deal with so much shit, yet I am willing to give my shirt off my back to someone who needs it.

Sadly, I may end up alone the rest of my life. I may never be a father, a boyfriend, or a husband. I eats me alive every day.

As you all know, I seek a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves. I am coming to the realization this may never happen for me, and I may end up alone.