How would you feel?

[LadyRaven]

Okay so my husband is always telling me that I only listen to other people when things are said like oh you look so beautiful today. Which by the way I don't hear from him unless somebody else says it first, but that's not really my point.

What I want to ask is how would someone else feel if their other half male or female were saying that to them while trying to secretly take pictures of women walking down the street, and video?

He has probably close to 100 to125 maybe 150 different pictures and videos that he took of women while walking around town or whatever, no they do not know about it either, but he has none of me not one, we've been together roughly 14 years.

So I just wanted to know how other people would feel about this and maybe how they would deal with it... Thank you so much!

[CerberusXXL]

Sounds like your partner is a suppressed Voyer, I have known people, male and female, who were like this and once you got down to the core of it they wanted to experiment with sex in a public place at least once. Most of them were satisfied after the one time because they did not enjoy it as much as they thought it would be. The fun thing about being in a long and lasting relationship is the willingness and ability to experiment with different thing. So just sutteley bring up playing in a pond, a lake, or ever a river, this way his/her voyeurism will be fulfilled while y'all can be relatively discrete about it. Who knows you may enjoy it as well, there is always a little rush doing something naughty knowing you could get caught.

[blarenbond]

That is not good at all. I too check out women walking around, but I also tell my wife how good she looks. Then again, I don't take pictures or videos of the other women.

Have you talked to him about it?