my boyfriend recently made a comment that made me feel like sh*t.
For reference, I’m 5m pp and a couple pounds away from my pre baby weight.. but of course my body is not 100% the same, I’m self conscious about it. I was previously insecure about my body and now i feel like it’s gotten a lot worse since having my baby. (breast not perky anymore, stretch marks, lower belly fat, arm fat, etc) I’m slowly starting to wear tighter clothes and do my hair/makeup more when i go out, just to make myself feel better & my boyfriend is well aware of my feelings about myself. I was telling him how i watched a Snapchat memory of myself when i was this current weight i am now (before the baby) & how it motivated me to go to the gym.. i was telling a story about how i remember when i was going to the gym consistently & he interrupted me by saying “and how long did that last?” or “for like how long a week?” i can’t remember which one because he’s said something along those lines BEFORE… when i first got pregnant. So this hurt my feelings and i stopped talking & told him to go shower or do something (just so he can get away from me) because he was laughing & said it was a joke & he didn’t mean it that way. I started to get upset because I’ve mentioned before that making comments/jokes about my BODY is not funny & not a joke?
So he’s said something like this before i got pregnant, & also made a comment about my breast when we were making homemade pizza, i asked him to grab the pepperonis to put on the pizza and he reached for my nipples. (I was probably about 1 or 2m pregnant at the time). So when he recently made that comment about the gym i just felt those insecurities hit times 10000000.
Did i cry? Yes i cried and felt gross about myself but i told myself not to beat myself about comments like that. How would you feel if your boyfriend told you something like that?
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