Is there any light at the end of the tunnel for me?

[MissingAWoman]

I know who I am as a person. I want to be the best dad ever. I am loyal, caring, loving, and I have been the person to never give up. I am passionate. I deal with so much shit, yet I am willing to give my shirt off my back to someone who needs it.

Sadly, I may end up alone the rest of my life. I may never be a father, a boyfriend, or a husband. I eats me alive every day.

As you all know, I seek a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves. I am coming to the realization this may never happen for me, and I may end up alone.

Yes

No

[roxbby]

Honestly, something you have to realize is that at age 27, most people have had romantic experiences. It's going to be virtually impossible to find someone who hasn't had any romantic experience. Another thing is that the whole first love romantic story tends to be unrealistic 99% of the time--when you're inexperienced, you don't know what you want and things are going to be unsteady and rocky. It will also save you a lot of sadness if your first love or first relationship doesn't work out because the majority of us don't stay with our first love for the rest of our lives.

Of course, it's all up to you how you choose to live your life. You may find a woman who thinks the same. But let me tell you--it's a small minority, and then to find someone you're attracted to physically and psychologically is an even smaller minority. It's safe to say impossible. For that reason, my personal advice is to change your mindset on your ideal relationship based on the criteria that she should be romantically inexperienced.

I know you may have your reasons, but the major counter to your belief is that you're literally not going to find anyone and then the people you find will probably not be your type and won't be experienced enough to know what they want.

Good luck in your love life. You definitely have light at the end of the tunnel, though, but only if you really change your beliefs.

[Jacobbbb]

There is light at the end of the tunnel my man trust me, but seeking a woman around your age that hasn't had any romantic experience at all... that's a tall ask. I think if you were to expand your options a bit you'll find happiness and success, but do things how you want to at the end of the day