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My father died early without a will, and his estate was split between my sister and I. She got an extra $45,000 for being 17.5 when he died, because minors here automatically get that amount first out of everything in probate. Then, we split whatever is left after that.

I took my portion and bought his house from the estate. Part of that went to my sister as well. So, I think she ended up with about $80k cash, and I walked away with the house. I believe about $27k that I put down for the deposit was my total inheritance. The house wasn't worth much after paying off the mortgage, and it needed repairs.

Later, my dad's parents died and didn't leave me anything. So, I guess the 3k loan my grandmother forgave before she died counts. If I'd known, I wouldn't have paid back the other 2k the month before, and it would have been 5k. It's a bit annoying because my grandparents kept promising an inheritance and left nothing to me and everything to my uncle. They could have just never made empty promises... I wouldn't have expected anything if they didn't bring it up multiple times. Just feels like lies and betrayal.

My great grandfather left my brother and I $50k in elementary school, but my uncle stole it and spent it since he was in charge of the estate.

I don't expect anyone else to leave anything. Maybe a rug I requested from my in-laws and family pictures from my Nana. If they do then great surprise, if not then no biggie. So, I suppose about $30k total that I actually got.

I’ve been living with my fiancé and his grandma for about 7 months now. Lately she has been getting even sicker (she’s on oxygen 24/7) so that also contributes to her having some breathing issues as well. It’s been a few days since she’s been back home from the hospital since her last visit not too long ago. Everything has been turned upside down!

No drama but everything is about her. I work full time M-F get home at 6pm so majority of my time is there since he doesn’t work but get $ monthly. She was already dependent on him but now it’s worse! He has to feed her, and walk her to the bathroom, clean up after her and clean the house all the time.

NYE was the first time in days we’ve spent more than 1 hr together.. IN THE SAME DAMN HOUSE!!! I’ve been asking him for months for dates, more than 2hrs of quality time, to get away from the house since his grandma is home ALLL the time!! We have no privacy and no peace and quiet at all cause he’s always chasing after her. Anytime we leave the house together it’s pretty much for her benefit not for a good time.

I don’t want to sound selfish but I’ve been helping him before her health declined but it makes me not want to help since there hasn’t been any balance in our relationship. It’s all about her and did I forget to add we’ve only slept in the same bed 5 times the whole 7 months I’ve been here.
I explain to him I want things to change that I want to go out and do things but I get an okay and nothing changes.

We had plans to spend the night at a hotel for NYE but had to cancel cause she need him on the hour by the hour 🙄. Our sex is always good but I’m checked out because if you can find time to have sex with me you can set aside more than an hour of your time!

We had a pregnancy scare but I’m thankful I’m not pregnant because I’d honestly leave this house. Myself nor my baby will sit there and be on the back burner. Not for no no one!!

!!! please no judgement!!