My mother takes a lot and without asking she just takes and takes without permission and she pretends that she doesn’t know what I’m talking about when I ask her what happened to it, and when I do ask she gets defensive and makes it seem like I did something wrong i don’t talk back or disrespect her at all, I am the older sibling and my younger sister is 16 she yells at our mom and basically tells her to shut up and that she’ll do it later and our mom actually stops talking after my sister yells at her but if I did that she would call the cops on me, when I was living with her during high school, I was the only one cleaning the whole house everyday and if I needed a break one day she would come home and yell at me but it’s always me doing them and everything else and she never tells my sister to clean up behind herself and she lets her continue to be messy and if I don’t clean then she’s down my throat but not at my sister, so last Christmas me and my son and husband were at her house and I remember her telling me she had got my son a present for Christmas and when I asked her about it because I was excited to see my son open his gifts from his grandma she comes back out with a outfit in a bag that was from the dollar store and throws it on the table and walked away, she didn’t wait to see my son look at it or anything, and when there is something she is asking me of something she’ll say it in a nice tone and when I try to say no or explain why I’m not comfortable with something she wants, she just rolls her eyes at me and storms off and starts an argument and acts like I’m her little sister instead of her daughter when I was a kid she was lying in bed and watching a funny family movie with my sister and my sister’s dad and I wanted to watch it with them but she yelled at me to get out and I sat by the door and crying my mom doesn’t love me anymore because I really felt like I was unwanted and she got up and closed the door while I was looking up at her. Narcissism?
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What is wrong with my mom?
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just by reading the first sentence i can tell she's a narcissist and loves gaslighting.
Yes I was wondering if it was true and It’s very mentally exhausting
Evil bitch disown her and move on. What’s her race? This is child abuse when you are young and emotional when you are older.
Cut the bitch off !
She’s black
I knew it. I’m black American and I notice the favoritism in our family & environment is sickening. Even in the workplace they have favorites. In family it’s horrible esp with siblings. You know this Christmas in the news two brothers one shot & killed because the mom brought him more presents. I’ll never forget an incident when a parent brought one child nice gifts and gave one a person of socks and the other handy downs.
Your situation is very similar to my wife's. Her mother resents my wife because she got pregnant with her so she had to get married. My wife's younger sister can do no wrong, but my wife can't do anything right according to her mother.
How did your wife handle that situation
She stopped talking to her mother.